Do we realize that 99% of posts here all stem from trying to increase interest level?

[bob2007]

It's because most people have not experienced women with crazy high levels of interest. After you've dated a lot of people and experienced the occasional ones with high interest level, you no longer try to please them but just entertain yourself with the conversation.

 

[Trump]

Just today I decided to visit a new grocery store in the area and was carpet bombed with ladies showing interest. It's not because of how I look physically, but rather because of who they sense I am... What I project.

What did you project?

Ten years ago I was clueless and virtually incapable of attracting women. Thanks to SoSuave that is no longer a problem.

What did Sosuave tell you to do?

 

[Trump]

You don’t really “raise interest” you kinda just maintain it and then she becomes more comfortable around you so it looks like you “raised her interest.”

You can definitely raise interest.

Go out with a younger hotter girl and have her find out.

 

[Murk]

What if you have good interested level then conflicts etc ruin the relationship slightly but you will remain in contact. To raise again you just go back to the guy she was interested in right?

 

[backseatjuan]

Women like you or they don’t. There’s no low or mediocre interest.

I want your input on this.

When you meet a woman her interest is six and above, just enough for her to go on a date with you. If it is 8 and above you can fck her. If it is bellow 8 you have work to do. Well, when her IL is 8 you can fck it up with your mouth and actions, lower her IL. Isn’t this true?

Plz comment.

 

[Skyline]

I want your input on this.

When you meet a woman her interest is six and above, just enough for her to go on a date with you. If it is 8 and above you can fck her. If it is bellow 8 you have work to do. Well, when her IL is 8 you can fck it up with your mouth and actions, lower her IL. Isn’t this true?

Plz comment.

No numbers.

Her interest is high enough to go on a date with you but she isn’t comfortable enough to sleep with you yet. The ‘work you have to do’ would be just making her feel more comfortable.

You lower her interest by making her uncomfortable. It’s like any reasonable person, the more uncomfortable you make someone feel the less they want to be around you.

You can also lower it by doing, or saying, things that she finds unattractive. The men who are the most successful with women have an ability to make them feel comfortable around him.

 

[captain55]

This is not good advice for the average guy here trying to bang women out of his league.

From personal experience- My last relationship had lmoderate interest level maybe 40-50%. . I pursued her on and off for months. Finally got her and ****ed the **** out of her and she fell in love with me.

This site is about gaming women with low to moderate interest level...that takes a bit of game. If you need this site to bang a woman with high interest level there is probably something seriously wrong with you and your ****ed

 

[IKO69]

This is not good advice for the average guy here trying to bang women out of his league.

From personal experience- My last relationship had lmoderate interest level maybe 40-50%. . I pursued her on and off for months. Finally got her and ****ed the **** out of her and she fell in love with me.

This site is about gaming women with low to moderate interest level...that takes a bit of game. If you need this site to bang a woman with high interest level there is probably something seriously wrong with you and your ****ed

What should they be hearing? The fact is guys have to get in where they can fit in.

There are guys who chase certain hotties for months and get nowhere and feel frustrated; they've expended a tremendous amount of energy and have literally tried EVERYTHING......and then there are certain guys that said women will respond to just like that and be on a date with that guy within no more than 2 weeks. That's just how it is - it's delusional to think you can make someone LIKE YOU when there is no interest- it's a waste of your time. It doesn't mean EVERY woman will do this, but if it ever gets to the point it feels like a chore than just get the **** out of there. Then again that is probably the problem that 95% of the people posting on here face - they are trying to win over a woman that is NOT interested and they wonder why because they have done X,Y & Z.


Make yourself as attractive as possible sure, but only waste your time with chix willing meet you half way.

 

[MatureDJ]

Imagine if women were always respectful, courteous, polite.

Stuck true to their word, dependable, made sure to present themselves in the best way possible to you.

Would this site exist? You would simply pick the one which you liked the most, and have a great relationship with her, no playing mind games, no manipulation.

And if she decides to no longer behave this way, no problem, you say your goodbyes cordially and move on to the next one.

My point with these obvious, trite remarks is to remind yourself when you were with a girl who had a high interest level. She likely behaved just as above, and things were likely great. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level. You will never have a problem with women anymore, you will never have the need to go to this site, you will never think about red pill / blue pill, alpha / beta, chad, whatever bull**** terms.

This whole site should be replaced with a single line. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level.

What if the only gals that have a high interest level in me are fat?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What should they be hearing? The fact is guys have to get in where they can fit in.

There are guys who chase certain hotties for months and get nowhere and feel frustrated; they've expended a tremendous amount of energy and have literally tried EVERYTHING......and then there are certain guys that said women will respond to just like that and be on a date with that guy within no more than 2 weeks. That's just how it is - it's delusional to think you can make someone LIKE YOU when there is no interest- it's a waste of your time. It doesn't mean EVERY woman will do this, but if it ever gets to the point it feels like a chore than just get the **** out of there. Then again that is probably the problem that 95% of the people posting on here face - they are trying to win over a woman that is NOT interested and they wonder why because they have done X,Y & Z.


Make yourself as attractive as possible sure, but only waste your time with chix willing meet you half way.

They lost or degraded the following chasing hotties:
1. Self respect
2. Masculinity and balls
3. Pride
4. Confidence

Bathing in low interest non sexual attention guarantees you more if the same.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What if the only gals that have a high interest level in me are fat?

The top NFL running backs and quarter backs have a great offensive line. Take the ***** where you can get it. They will provide you a sexualized energy. Some of the skinny girls are in competition with the heavier ones so thryll want to "cheat" with you.

 

[flowtheory]

What should they be hearing? The fact is guys have to get in where they can fit in.

There are guys who chase certain hotties for months and get nowhere and feel frustrated; they've expended a tremendous amount of energy and have literally tried EVERYTHING......and then there are certain guys that said women will respond to just like that and be on a date with that guy within no more than 2 weeks. That's just how it is - it's delusional to think you can make someone LIKE YOU when there is no interest- it's a waste of your time. It doesn't mean EVERY woman will do this, but if it ever gets to the point it feels like a chore than just get the **** out of there. Then again that is probably the problem that 95% of the people posting on here face - they are trying to win over a woman that is NOT interested and they wonder why because they have done X,Y & Z.


Make yourself as attractive as possible sure, but only waste your time with chix willing meet you half way.

What if you’be been with a woman and there’s clearly high interest; lots of sex, she pays a lot of the time, meets you more than halfway, calls, texts, wants to hangout every weekend, talks about the future, calls you husband material, wants to plan trips overseas but she consistently creates problems and is overly critical and scrupulous?
Would that just be insecurity, waxing and waning interest, or?
I’ve paid heavy compliments to this woman and she had responded with ‘she doesn’t feel worthy’ or when she’s waken up in the morning with me she had cried because she said she was happy for the first time in a long time.

Maybe it had nothing to do with interest but more-so low esteem. I really don’t know.

I’ve experienced this and it left me bewildered, still does to this day. It’s what brought me to the board.

 

[flowtheory]

Sounds like love-bombing to me. Watch yourself mate. If something is that easy then it's not gonna last forever.

What do you mean by love-bombing? And easy? It was by no means easy; there was both good and not so good.

 

[flowtheory]

Search for 'love bombing NPD" or "love bombing BPD" however it won't save you if you are target of love bombing. If it lasts that long then claws are already deep in your soul and you will understand it all the hard way.

Of course I don't know your situation so feel free to brush it off. My own bad memories and heightened sense I aquired after dealing with my BPD ex raise my awareness everytime when I read comments like yours above. If it's far from what you are experiencing then please accept my apologies for making you feel uncomfortable.

Oh I don’t know if it was love bombing. She was sweet but didn’t say things that didn’t have grounding or weren’t possibly true. I believe she had high interest. Just didn’t know what to do with the vacillating actions at times. But then again, she was a woman

 

[DreamAgain]

What if the only gals that have a high interest level in me are fat?

You gotta start somewhere .

Seriously though, don't stoop down to that level. I actually find "thick" girls attractive, but being seen out in public with them is a different thing...they're like a scooter, fun to ride but don't let your friends see you doing it.