Do we realize that 99% of posts here all stem from trying to increase interest level?

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Interest level is a metric by which we can measure our growth as men.

In this case, I define Interest level as "Receiving obvious interest and body language invitations from women in day-to-day life".

Just today I decided to visit a new grocery store in the area and was carpet bombed with ladies showing interest. It's not because of how I look physically, but rather because of who they sense I am... What I project. Ten years ago I was clueless and virtually incapable of attracting women. Thanks to SoSuave that is no longer a problem.

Women are a mirror, men. Use that mirror to gauge who you are and what you project.
 

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Just to add to what others have said:

Women like you or they don’t. There’s no low or mediocre interest. The way to attract women is by focusing on yourself and raising your value. Not by saying some pick up line or smooth move- these are good qualities to have but they will not create or raise interest.

Remember, if a woman is attracted to you then you can pretty much do anything. You can only maintain interest, not create it.
 

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It's very few women that just everything I say is the Right thing to say to her because her voice or her personality or her welcoming always sparks my brain to create a line or inflection that spurs interest in her mind and every time we see each other we never get put off by one another or angry or in a bad mood with one another. We just 'click.' I have one like that going on 4 years now, she's a mom, a teacher, a former librarian, with a chirpy voice (always has turned me on or sparked my mind to love her in speech and other ways of course - the woman who changed me forever in 2005 had that same voice, think June Carter or Reese Whitherspoon you know A-type). My first impression to her landed perfect (like a gymnast and SHE is very gymnasty), and all throughout our 'liking' of each other has stayed strong even building. She's 4 years OLDER than me, but my mind shunts this knowledge, though I know my eyes seeing her declothed would wince the sag and fatness (though she's recently lost weight, doesn't matter cause 'I' know past early 30s, most women's bodies are not to my liking) so maybe we could just lose control and not get fully naked, that would be ideal. She's married. I feel a strong urge from myself and her everytime we meet though, how I say her name how she says mine and how we must hide our affections from one another from others present because all of us know she's married. She's very sexual in being like in secret she lets slivers get shown in smile from the side. She's (or was) involved in church. She probably sees me as being a validation of sorts of that she's still "got it" (attraction). It's purely her spirit and voice that attracts me though and her acceptance of me or dropping everything for me and sexual word play with me overtones/undertones that get me aroused many hours after an encounter with her. It's youthful. It's the sneakiness of it all also that draws me in or I can tell she's spinning a spell on me and I'll return it on her. She's kinda a mercenary in her work and from a state in the midwest - middle of nowhere - or obscurity (cold place) but she has to work and is certainly Not rich just middle or low-middle class. She's a mom and a reader/educator. If we were to be alone (completely and without a shadow of a doubt for the next few hours) I wonder if she would force the issue because she has grabbed my hands before (kind of alarming or surprising last year). She likes to play though. It would be dangerous.
 

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It's because most people have not experienced women with crazy high levels of interest. After you've dated a lot of people and experienced the occasional ones with high interest level, you no longer try to please them but just entertain yourself with the conversation.
 

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The message of this site is that you can only increase a woman's interest level by being high value. So they tell you to do stuff like make money, get a life, develop social skills, and even learn manipulation.

Women like value. But it's not enough that you have value. You have to actually give it. The principle I follow is she has to invest and comply if she wants my validation.

Compliance, I would say, is probably the biggest secret to "game." If I ask a woman a simple question like "What are you drinking?" And she hands me her drink so that I could take a sip, I know I have attraction, compliance, comfort, and all that stuff PUAs say you need to pull.

I don't look at anything else but compliance. Yes you have to look for interest level, but the barometer you use is compliance.

A woman can pretend to be interested and use you for attention and validation, but try to get her to comply and her true interest will be revealed.

You can even tell when your gf is about to break up with you judging by her level of compliance.

1 - Attraction (create value for yourself)
2- Compliance (How you know women are interested
3- Pull

It is as simple as that. Honestly when I am talking to women, my mind is completely empty. I don't burden myself with all those game tactics. All I look for is compliance..but it's second nature now.

A lot of times, guys mess up because they are not greedy enough to get compliance (This tells women you are not used to having women attracted to you). Make her do things for you. Make her buy you a drink. Get her to leave the club with you or follow you around. Make her pay for things.

99% of all relationship problems in this site have one common theme: Lack of compliance.
 
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Just today I decided to visit a new grocery store in the area and was carpet bombed with ladies showing interest. It's not because of how I look physically, but rather because of who they sense I am... What I project.
What did you project?

Ten years ago I was clueless and virtually incapable of attracting women. Thanks to SoSuave that is no longer a problem.
What did Sosuave tell you to do?
 

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You don’t really “raise interest” you kinda just maintain it and then she becomes more comfortable around you so it looks like you “raised her interest.”
You can definitely raise interest.

Go out with a younger hotter girl and have her find out.
 

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Red Pill - she needs to be interested in you when you are at your best or below (but not below decent version of yourself), go for interest level 8 - 10 only (8 needs to be screened carefully)

Anything below 8 in interest level will be waste of time.
 

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What if you have good interested level then conflicts etc ruin the relationship slightly but you will remain in contact. To raise again you just go back to the guy she was interested in right?
 

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What if you have good interested level then conflicts etc ruin the relationship slightly but you will remain in contact. To raise again you just go back to the guy she was interested in right?
With exception to virgins, if she is not phucking you she is either:
1)phucking someone else
2)thinking about phucking someone else

So hit next until low-cost easy possibility to re-engage (same party, you are not paying for her drinks etc.)

It's either high IL from her or you forget her name.
 

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Women like you or they don’t. There’s no low or mediocre interest.
I want your input on this.

When you meet a woman her interest is six and above, just enough for her to go on a date with you. If it is 8 and above you can fck her. If it is bellow 8 you have work to do. Well, when her IL is 8 you can fck it up with your mouth and actions, lower her IL. Isn’t this true?

Plz comment.
 

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I want your input on this.

When you meet a woman her interest is six and above, just enough for her to go on a date with you. If it is 8 and above you can fck her. If it is bellow 8 you have work to do. Well, when her IL is 8 you can fck it up with your mouth and actions, lower her IL. Isn’t this true?

Plz comment.
No numbers.

Her interest is high enough to go on a date with you but she isn’t comfortable enough to sleep with you yet. The ‘work you have to do’ would be just making her feel more comfortable.

You lower her interest by making her uncomfortable. It’s like any reasonable person, the more uncomfortable you make someone feel the less they want to be around you.

You can also lower it by doing, or saying, things that she finds unattractive. The men who are the most successful with women have an ability to make them feel comfortable around him.
 

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This is not good advice for the average guy here trying to bang women out of his league.

From personal experience- My last relationship had lmoderate interest level maybe 40-50%. . I pursued her on and off for months. Finally got her and ****ed the **** out of her and she fell in love with me.

This site is about gaming women with low to moderate interest level...that takes a bit of game. If you need this site to bang a woman with high interest level there is probably something seriously wrong with you and your ****ed
 

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This is not good advice for the average guy here trying to bang women out of his league.

From personal experience- My last relationship had lmoderate interest level maybe 40-50%. . I pursued her on and off for months. Finally got her and ****ed the **** out of her and she fell in love with me.

This site is about gaming women with low to moderate interest level...that takes a bit of game. If you need this site to bang a woman with high interest level there is probably something seriously wrong with you and your ****ed
What should they be hearing? The fact is guys have to get in where they can fit in.

There are guys who chase certain hotties for months and get nowhere and feel frustrated; they've expended a tremendous amount of energy and have literally tried EVERYTHING......and then there are certain guys that said women will respond to just like that and be on a date with that guy within no more than 2 weeks. That's just how it is - it's delusional to think you can make someone LIKE YOU when there is no interest- it's a waste of your time. It doesn't mean EVERY woman will do this, but if it ever gets to the point it feels like a chore than just get the **** out of there. Then again that is probably the problem that 95% of the people posting on here face - they are trying to win over a woman that is NOT interested and they wonder why because they have done X,Y & Z.


Make yourself as attractive as possible sure, but only waste your time with chix willing meet you half way.
 

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Imagine if women were always respectful, courteous, polite.

Stuck true to their word, dependable, made sure to present themselves in the best way possible to you.

Would this site exist? You would simply pick the one which you liked the most, and have a great relationship with her, no playing mind games, no manipulation.

And if she decides to no longer behave this way, no problem, you say your goodbyes cordially and move on to the next one.

My point with these obvious, trite remarks is to remind yourself when you were with a girl who had a high interest level. She likely behaved just as above, and things were likely great. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level. You will never have a problem with women anymore, you will never have the need to go to this site, you will never think about red pill / blue pill, alpha / beta, chad, whatever bull**** terms.

This whole site should be replaced with a single line. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level.
What if the only gals that have a high interest level in me are fat? :mad:
 
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What should they be hearing? The fact is guys have to get in where they can fit in.

There are guys who chase certain hotties for months and get nowhere and feel frustrated; they've expended a tremendous amount of energy and have literally tried EVERYTHING......and then there are certain guys that said women will respond to just like that and be on a date with that guy within no more than 2 weeks. That's just how it is - it's delusional to think you can make someone LIKE YOU when there is no interest- it's a waste of your time. It doesn't mean EVERY woman will do this, but if it ever gets to the point it feels like a chore than just get the **** out of there. Then again that is probably the problem that 95% of the people posting on here face - they are trying to win over a woman that is NOT interested and they wonder why because they have done X,Y & Z.


Make yourself as attractive as possible sure, but only waste your time with chix willing meet you half way.
They lost or degraded the following chasing hotties:
1. Self respect
2. Masculinity and balls
3. Pride
4. Confidence

Bathing in low interest non sexual attention guarantees you more if the same.
 

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What if the only gals that have a high interest level in me are fat? :mad:
The top NFL running backs and quarter backs have a great offensive line. Take the ***** where you can get it. They will provide you a sexualized energy. Some of the skinny girls are in competition with the heavier ones so thryll want to "cheat" with you.
 

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What should they be hearing? The fact is guys have to get in where they can fit in.

There are guys who chase certain hotties for months and get nowhere and feel frustrated; they've expended a tremendous amount of energy and have literally tried EVERYTHING......and then there are certain guys that said women will respond to just like that and be on a date with that guy within no more than 2 weeks. That's just how it is - it's delusional to think you can make someone LIKE YOU when there is no interest- it's a waste of your time. It doesn't mean EVERY woman will do this, but if it ever gets to the point it feels like a chore than just get the **** out of there. Then again that is probably the problem that 95% of the people posting on here face - they are trying to win over a woman that is NOT interested and they wonder why because they have done X,Y & Z.


Make yourself as attractive as possible sure, but only waste your time with chix willing meet you half way.
What if you’be been with a woman and there’s clearly high interest; lots of sex, she pays a lot of the time, meets you more than halfway, calls, texts, wants to hangout every weekend, talks about the future, calls you husband material, wants to plan trips overseas but she consistently creates problems and is overly critical and scrupulous?
Would that just be insecurity, waxing and waning interest, or?
I’ve paid heavy compliments to this woman and she had responded with ‘she doesn’t feel worthy’ or when she’s waken up in the morning with me she had cried because she said she was happy for the first time in a long time.

Maybe it had nothing to do with interest but more-so low esteem. I really don’t know.

I’ve experienced this and it left me bewildered, still does to this day. It’s what brought me to the board.
 

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What if you’be been with a woman and there’s clearly high interest; lots of sex, she pays a lot of the time, meets you more than halfway, calls, texts, wants to hangout every weekend, talks about the future, calls you husband material, wants to plan trips overseas but she consistently creates problems and is overly critical and scrupulous?
Would that just be insecurity, waxing and waning interest, or?
I’ve paid heavy compliments to this woman and she had responded with ‘she doesn’t feel worthy’ or when she’s waken up in the morning with me she had cried because she said she was happy for the first time in a long time.

Maybe it had nothing to do with interest but more-so low esteem. I really don’t know.

I’ve experienced this and it left me bewildered, still does to this day. It’s what brought me to the board.
Sounds like love-bombing to me. Watch yourself mate. If something is that easy then it's not gonna last forever.
 

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Sounds like love-bombing to me. Watch yourself mate. If something is that easy then it's not gonna last forever.
What do you mean by love-bombing? And easy? It was by no means easy; there was both good and not so good.
 
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