"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do U trust internet chicks?

tom121

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This is a questions for all the guys who is in ANY internet dating sites

I for one, is in 5+ dating sites (all free ones :p)

I have gone out with 4 chicks to be exactly in an year. I haven't gone out with any of them on a SECOND date, I guess they regretted...

although at the meeting place, she wouldn't be like "*suprised look* are you (name)?" me: "yes" ** start backing up, and runs away **
no actually 4 of my dates didn't run away from me, she would stick with me from start to end, talk freely, wouldn't find ways to leave the date, and end it with a friendly wave hand good bye, then later email me about going out again in the future, although when I ask them, they never have time or too BUSY :rolleyes:

this time I am about to this chick I barely knew, she saw my dating profile and thought I was "cute" ("cute" for guys? :rolleyes:) and her friends thought of that too... lol so we were talking for few hours, finally she asked to meet me... BUT


1) she said she has a boyfriend


2) this is what she wrote me before I talk to her on MSN messenger

hihi nice to meet chu .. my name is Tamera and hehehe i would be gald to be a friend of yours.. hehehe .. welps ... thanks for dropping bah my AFF hehehe .. welps ttul then .. BYE !!!!!
so it's likely she is going out with me as a friend, i am okay with that


3) but while we are chatting, this is what she said


at first:

hahaha my friends thinks your kyooote and hoping you dont have a gurlfriend
I didn't say anything then she asked me again later on

do you have a gurlfriend bah any chance ?
so its likely she wanted me to hook up with her friend, which I haven't seen her friends picture


5) she lives an hour and thirty-five minutes from me :eek:


and stupidly I gave her my house number, I told her that I am not such a phone talker so call me before we meet up, she agreed. Up until now she haven't called, so I am glad...


so do you think I should go out with her, as a friendship ofcourse :rolleyes: lol and no I wouldn't mind "friends with benefits" if she agrees. Plus she is one years older than me and pretty looking so what should I do?



thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ever onward

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To answer your question

No I do not trust internet chicks

I dated a girl I met in a chatroom for 3 months once. We started having some problems and I tried to give her space. Found out later she was already hooked up with some other dude she met on the net from cali.

The moral of the story. Far too many chicks are looking for a BBD Bigger Better Deal and the internet allows them to think they found it just cuz some dude with a pretty boy pic will chat with them.

This is a really sore subject for me, maybe I shouldn't be the one to give you objective advice.

Damn internet hos
 

Fatality

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Do hot girls actually do internet dating? If so why? If they're hot why would they need a computer to meet guys when guys probably already hit on them.
 

Hollowpoint

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i h8 tooking 2 peepo whu haf baddish enishg skillz hheehehe!


*Kills self*
 

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i have found that b*tches tell alot of lies in real life.

b*tches on the interent tell even more lies.

i don't date chicks off the internet. never had to, i am always meeting chicks and getting numbers enough in real life to keep enough on the line where i don't have to ( but i would give it a go :) ).

i reckon it would be tricky cause you gotta chat to them, but remain a mystery ? how do you guys do it ? i am curious


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ever onward

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
i have found that b*tches tell alot of lies in real life.

b*tches on the interent tell even more lies.

i don't date chicks off the internet. never had to, i am always meeting chicks and getting numbers enough in real life to keep enough on the line where i don't have to ( but i would give it a go :) ).

i reckon it would be tricky cause you gotta chat to them, but remain a mystery ? how do you guys do it ? i am curious


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Yeah Fukkin *****es! I don't trust any of em
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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Date internet chicks - yes

LTR internet chicks - HELL NO!

Ever onward has it on the ball...internet chics are ALL attention hoes. ALL OF THEM.

Look at at all the pages/profiles on sites like myspace.com. Half the women have their t*ts and asses hanging out with personal quotes like "I can't find an honest man"..blah blah blah..

The reason why internet girls are horrible LTRs is that they are on those sites to have AFCs go by and kiss their asses with comments like..you're so hot..what a beautiful hottie..please marry me..etc...It doesnt matter if you're the next best thing to sliced bread, she needs the attention of other men to make herself feel better...

but...find a girl that needs this attention..wine her..dine her..DJ her..and for the most part, internet girls are easy FBs and ONS.
 

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Not any more, thats for sure :(. I've been fooled by 3+ girls now.. who have all turned out to be guys. Now.. that MAY sound like I'm a gullible idiot. But many others I knew were fooled also. I got revenge on all 3 of them though.

From now on, I rarely talk to girls on the internet. I can't trust any of them :(.
 
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