Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do u think my face will change any or is it gonna stay like this?(PIC)

Jariel

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Don't worry dude, you've got good looks, you just need to make the most of your potential.

Working out will give you firmer and more defined (manly) features. A lot of people don't realise how much working out can affect facial features.

Otherwise, work on your style. Try to get a more modern (shorter) hairstyle and some classy clothes. Black guys can pull off some great styles and the RnB look is real classy and shows value, but I suggest you consult a female who has an eye for style, like a sister, cousin or friend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Le Parisien

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Yeah, I agree with most people here, you actually got a good looking face.
Just get rid of the kid moustache and get a better haircut, you will look great.

And THEN, you will really need to work on your attitude and confidence and everything because from the way you are blaming your looks for your lack of success with ladies...
:rolleyes:

But hey, you are still pretty young, plenty of time to make a ladies man out of yourself...:D

And on the last note, I don't think playing up the black guy stereotype thing (Ice Cube, blonde girls and stuff...) as someone suggested is good. Be who you want to be. But hey it's just my personal take on the issue.
 

Mr. Unique

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See man, librito was so turned on by your face that he had to post the same Sh!t twice, Lol! dont worry about your looks work on your game.
 

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it's not hoe good looking you are it's how you act and talk to women.

my freind is a really good looking guy. he goes to a club and no sober women opens him. he has to do it himself. they may look at him and check him out, but they dont walk up to him and try to pick him up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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