"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do u think my face will change any or is it gonna stay like this?(PIC)

Jariel

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Don't worry dude, you've got good looks, you just need to make the most of your potential.

Working out will give you firmer and more defined (manly) features. A lot of people don't realise how much working out can affect facial features.

Otherwise, work on your style. Try to get a more modern (shorter) hairstyle and some classy clothes. Black guys can pull off some great styles and the RnB look is real classy and shows value, but I suggest you consult a female who has an eye for style, like a sister, cousin or friend.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Le Parisien

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Yeah, I agree with most people here, you actually got a good looking face.
Just get rid of the kid moustache and get a better haircut, you will look great.

And THEN, you will really need to work on your attitude and confidence and everything because from the way you are blaming your looks for your lack of success with ladies...
:rolleyes:

But hey, you are still pretty young, plenty of time to make a ladies man out of yourself...:D

And on the last note, I don't think playing up the black guy stereotype thing (Ice Cube, blonde girls and stuff...) as someone suggested is good. Be who you want to be. But hey it's just my personal take on the issue.
 

Mr. Unique

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See man, librito was so turned on by your face that he had to post the same Sh!t twice, Lol! dont worry about your looks work on your game.
 

Logen

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it's not hoe good looking you are it's how you act and talk to women.

my freind is a really good looking guy. he goes to a club and no sober women opens him. he has to do it himself. they may look at him and check him out, but they dont walk up to him and try to pick him up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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