"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do u think my face will change any or is it gonna stay like this?(PIC)

Jariel

Jariel

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Don't worry dude, you've got good looks, you just need to make the most of your potential.

Working out will give you firmer and more defined (manly) features. A lot of people don't realise how much working out can affect facial features.

Otherwise, work on your style. Try to get a more modern (shorter) hairstyle and some classy clothes. Black guys can pull off some great styles and the RnB look is real classy and shows value, but I suggest you consult a female who has an eye for style, like a sister, cousin or friend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Le Parisien

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Yeah, I agree with most people here, you actually got a good looking face.
Just get rid of the kid moustache and get a better haircut, you will look great.

And THEN, you will really need to work on your attitude and confidence and everything because from the way you are blaming your looks for your lack of success with ladies...
:rolleyes:

But hey, you are still pretty young, plenty of time to make a ladies man out of yourself...:D

And on the last note, I don't think playing up the black guy stereotype thing (Ice Cube, blonde girls and stuff...) as someone suggested is good. Be who you want to be. But hey it's just my personal take on the issue.
 
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See man, librito was so turned on by your face that he had to post the same Sh!t twice, Lol! dont worry about your looks work on your game.
 
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it's not hoe good looking you are it's how you act and talk to women.

my freind is a really good looking guy. he goes to a club and no sober women opens him. he has to do it himself. they may look at him and check him out, but they dont walk up to him and try to pick him up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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