"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do U think men's sp3rm count is crashing b/c they look @ today's women & subconsiously say NO?

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years
The quality of sperm from men in North America, Europe and Australia has declined dramatically over the past 40 years, with a 52.4 percent drop in sperm concentration, according to a study published Tuesday.
My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years

My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
Well duh, it's mirroring the decline in Testosterone levels...no real surprise there
 

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years

My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years

My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
Ying and yang. Women can't be more masculine and it doesn't affect males. It comes from the man.
 

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Women accept and invite, men pursue. When that perceived reality is thrown out of whack, anything can happen.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women invite, men pursue. When that reality is thrown out of whack, anything can happen.
Alot of men feel "oppressed" and "disempowered", it's not good for testosterone, and it doesn't take environmentals to cause the drop. A change in socianety norms can affect overall attitudes and testosterone levels
 

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It's not women's obesity that is causing it but men's.... Men getting fatter and getting many of the diseases that affect T levels... Change your diet, sleep better, more exercise, stress management and your T levels will rise.
 

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It's not women's obesity that is causing it but men's.... Men getting fatter and getting many of the diseases that affect T levels... Change your diet, sleep better, more exercise, stress management and your T levels will rise.
More women are more fit, they are watching movies with female action stars, disempowered husbands ( Al Bundy, etc ), they are taking masculine space in the room with no fear, they are knocking men back with help from the laws and our culture.
 

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they are taking masculine space in the room with no fear, they are knocking me back.
Let them. They are not a target of mine.
Be amused at the femminists that want to act like men and concentrate only on the genuine women available to you.
Eliminate the word fear from your mental vocabulary.
 
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It's not women's obesity that is causing it but men's.... Men getting fatter and getting many of the diseases that affect T levels... Change your diet, sleep better, more exercise, stress management and your T levels will rise.
This is very true also. Think about it: a fat belly on a man pushes directly down on the base of his pen!s when he's in a seated position. It's not conducive to sex in any sense. It turns her off and you as well.

I can't believe how much abdominal fat just appeared on me in my early 40's, overnight. I had to work for 5 years to get it under control and it's finally going away. I needed to hire a trainer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is very true also. Think about it: a fat belly on a man pushes directly down on the base of his pen!s when he's in a seated position. It's not conducive to sex in any sense. It turns her off and you as well.

I can't believe how much abdominal fat just appeared on me in my early 40's, overnight. I had to work for 5 years to get it under control and it's finally going away. I needed to hire a trainer.
Keep going. Alot of guys lose almost 1" of c0ck from that fat gain. Plus the women been gaining on him all the years with her nags, nitpicks and learning his presence slowly creeping to a more dominate position. That more dominant position is not good for testosterone.
 
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