"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do U think men's sp3rm count is crashing b/c they look @ today's women & subconsiously say NO?

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years
The quality of sperm from men in North America, Europe and Australia has declined dramatically over the past 40 years, with a 52.4 percent drop in sperm concentration, according to a study published Tuesday.
My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years

My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
Well duh, it's mirroring the decline in Testosterone levels...no real surprise there
 

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years

My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...entration-has-declined-50-percent-in-40-years

My opinion: What's the point of making all that rocket fuel when there is nothing around except the Fat Acceptance crowd, and other dregs that we have to be shamed to "man up" for? :down: I'd like to see the statistics on the sp3rm count for male teachers at a girls Catholic school. :rolleyes:
Ying and yang. Women can't be more masculine and it doesn't affect males. It comes from the man.
 

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Women accept and invite, men pursue. When that perceived reality is thrown out of whack, anything can happen.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women invite, men pursue. When that reality is thrown out of whack, anything can happen.
Alot of men feel "oppressed" and "disempowered", it's not good for testosterone, and it doesn't take environmentals to cause the drop. A change in socianety norms can affect overall attitudes and testosterone levels
 

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It's not women's obesity that is causing it but men's.... Men getting fatter and getting many of the diseases that affect T levels... Change your diet, sleep better, more exercise, stress management and your T levels will rise.
 

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It's not women's obesity that is causing it but men's.... Men getting fatter and getting many of the diseases that affect T levels... Change your diet, sleep better, more exercise, stress management and your T levels will rise.
More women are more fit, they are watching movies with female action stars, disempowered husbands ( Al Bundy, etc ), they are taking masculine space in the room with no fear, they are knocking men back with help from the laws and our culture.
 

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they are taking masculine space in the room with no fear, they are knocking me back.
Let them. They are not a target of mine.
Be amused at the femminists that want to act like men and concentrate only on the genuine women available to you.
Eliminate the word fear from your mental vocabulary.
 
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It's not women's obesity that is causing it but men's.... Men getting fatter and getting many of the diseases that affect T levels... Change your diet, sleep better, more exercise, stress management and your T levels will rise.
This is very true also. Think about it: a fat belly on a man pushes directly down on the base of his pen!s when he's in a seated position. It's not conducive to sex in any sense. It turns her off and you as well.

I can't believe how much abdominal fat just appeared on me in my early 40's, overnight. I had to work for 5 years to get it under control and it's finally going away. I needed to hire a trainer.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is very true also. Think about it: a fat belly on a man pushes directly down on the base of his pen!s when he's in a seated position. It's not conducive to sex in any sense. It turns her off and you as well.

I can't believe how much abdominal fat just appeared on me in my early 40's, overnight. I had to work for 5 years to get it under control and it's finally going away. I needed to hire a trainer.
Keep going. Alot of guys lose almost 1" of c0ck from that fat gain. Plus the women been gaining on him all the years with her nags, nitpicks and learning his presence slowly creeping to a more dominate position. That more dominant position is not good for testosterone.
 
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