"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do Testosterone Levels Decrease After Sex?

Frank2500

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I was just curious about this. After the ejaculation period during sex, does it cause a man's level of testosterone to decrease?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Frank2500

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Re:

This is a genuine question asked out of curiousity. I really want to know...please don't dismiss it as a dumb question. I'm truly curious.
 

ryannath

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I always get a natural high after sex and a rush and can't sleep afterwards. So, I would say testosterone goes up after sex, but i'm just guessing.
 

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Thanks at least for taking the time to respond, Kevin.
 

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I dont know where I read this, and I cant vouch for the validity, but I do recall reading that ejaculation causes a decrease in testosterone, and that its not optimal to have sex/jerkoff before working out. Whether it causes a huge difference and actually has some real effects...I have no idea.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, ejaculation causes a decrease in testosterone. It takes about 7 days to return to peak testosterone levels after an ejaculation.
 

shagnscoob

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does that mean that having regular sex will hurt gains in the gym?
 

ryannath

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It might lower it some, but if that was the case then pro athletes in the NBA, NFL, etc would be weaklings because of regular sex because hors throw themselves at them everynight. So, it can't have much of an impact on testosterone.
 
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