"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do STREET PICK UPS work ?

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I've been trying picking up women on the street for a very long time now and I've been wondering if it is really worth keep trying or do I quit ? ... I read several times that it is the most hard pick up ever ... how you guys do it?... do you pick up on the street? ...there are several times during the week that back home I see gorgeous women that I would never get to know unless I approach them ... I have done that but they are very polite .they give their number(most of them cellphones, never home phone numbers) ...but never get to the time and place for the date when i call them ..they say "yes! that's fine ! I'll be there ...but I never get to see them again"

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah it's hard. you have little to no time to build rapport. as such, unless you are very attractive to the woman, she will not see you as any different than any other guy. you have to find some way to pique her interest...and call soon afterwards so she has you fresh in her mind...
 
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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
i'd have to say that generally no pick-ups anywhere work. Most girls dont like them but there are exceptions of ones that do.,
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street pickups are easy, just ask the girl if she wants a date, usually she says sure, then give her anywhere from $50 to $100 and the rest is easy.... watch out for the police though.
 
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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
street pickups are easy, just ask the girl if she wants a date, usually she says sure, then give her anywhere from $50 to $100 and the rest is easy.... watch out for the police though.
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lol :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
street pickups are easy, just ask the girl if she wants a date, usually she says sure, then give her anywhere from $50 to $100 and the rest is easy.... watch out for the police though.
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:eek: so thats how it works :D
 
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SHOULD I QUIT DOING street pick ups ? ... I still focus only on the fun of approaching a woman.... but oftentimes I DO WANNA GET THE HOTTIE I am talking to ....
 
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Common guys!

Don't you guys have SMS over there?

Once you have a girls number a quick and easy way to build up at least some rapport (which they always go along with because it's less confrontational for them) is SMS.

Simply type your witty message on your cell phone, select their number then send... And wait for their reply!

At least that way they have a chance to find out about YOU and you them so when it comes to a date they won't feel so nervous about meeting the guy they just met randomly on the street.

Think about it :)
 
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Re: Common guys!

Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer
Don't you guys have SMS over there?

Once you have a girls number a quick and easy way to build up at least some rapport (which they always go along with because it's less confrontational for them) is SMS.

Simply type your witty message on your cell phone, select their number then send... And wait for their reply!

At least that way they have a chance to find out about YOU and you them so when it comes to a date they won't feel so nervous about meeting the guy they just met randomly on the street.

Think about it :)
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I have to ask ...what the heck is SMS ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by o14liquid
its like text messaging
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I do have that ... but in any case i have to talk to the lady anyway ...which means I have to pick her up anyway .. :mad:
 
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SMS is SOOOO great cause you get to think out the cokyest, funnyest things to say, and then edit it down to the last word.
 
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me personally i dont like street pick ups. u gotta think up a good convo starter which sometimes can be a pain for some and easy for others. i dont do it cuz i'm lazy :eek:

i stick to the malls, clubs, shopping place, etc. etc. if they're at walmart or soemthing looking at cd's or dvd's its a good convo starter talking about teh cd/dvd that they're looking at. its always teh convo starter that'll get they're attention.....well 1st impression basically :cool:
 
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