"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Do STREET PICK UPS work ?

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I've been trying picking up women on the street for a very long time now and I've been wondering if it is really worth keep trying or do I quit ? ... I read several times that it is the most hard pick up ever ... how you guys do it?... do you pick up on the street? ...there are several times during the week that back home I see gorgeous women that I would never get to know unless I approach them ... I have done that but they are very polite .they give their number(most of them cellphones, never home phone numbers) ...but never get to the time and place for the date when i call them ..they say "yes! that's fine ! I'll be there ...but I never get to see them again"

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah it's hard. you have little to no time to build rapport. as such, unless you are very attractive to the woman, she will not see you as any different than any other guy. you have to find some way to pique her interest...and call soon afterwards so she has you fresh in her mind...
 
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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
i'd have to say that generally no pick-ups anywhere work. Most girls dont like them but there are exceptions of ones that do.,
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street pickups are easy, just ask the girl if she wants a date, usually she says sure, then give her anywhere from $50 to $100 and the rest is easy.... watch out for the police though.
 
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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
street pickups are easy, just ask the girl if she wants a date, usually she says sure, then give her anywhere from $50 to $100 and the rest is easy.... watch out for the police though.
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lol :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
street pickups are easy, just ask the girl if she wants a date, usually she says sure, then give her anywhere from $50 to $100 and the rest is easy.... watch out for the police though.
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:eek: so thats how it works :D
 
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SHOULD I QUIT DOING street pick ups ? ... I still focus only on the fun of approaching a woman.... but oftentimes I DO WANNA GET THE HOTTIE I am talking to ....
 
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Common guys!

Don't you guys have SMS over there?

Once you have a girls number a quick and easy way to build up at least some rapport (which they always go along with because it's less confrontational for them) is SMS.

Simply type your witty message on your cell phone, select their number then send... And wait for their reply!

At least that way they have a chance to find out about YOU and you them so when it comes to a date they won't feel so nervous about meeting the guy they just met randomly on the street.

Think about it :)
 
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Re: Common guys!

Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer
Don't you guys have SMS over there?

Once you have a girls number a quick and easy way to build up at least some rapport (which they always go along with because it's less confrontational for them) is SMS.

Simply type your witty message on your cell phone, select their number then send... And wait for their reply!

At least that way they have a chance to find out about YOU and you them so when it comes to a date they won't feel so nervous about meeting the guy they just met randomly on the street.

Think about it :)
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I have to ask ...what the heck is SMS ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by o14liquid
its like text messaging
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I do have that ... but in any case i have to talk to the lady anyway ...which means I have to pick her up anyway .. :mad:
 
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SMS is SOOOO great cause you get to think out the cokyest, funnyest things to say, and then edit it down to the last word.
 
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me personally i dont like street pick ups. u gotta think up a good convo starter which sometimes can be a pain for some and easy for others. i dont do it cuz i'm lazy :eek:

i stick to the malls, clubs, shopping place, etc. etc. if they're at walmart or soemthing looking at cd's or dvd's its a good convo starter talking about teh cd/dvd that they're looking at. its always teh convo starter that'll get they're attention.....well 1st impression basically :cool:
 
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