"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do some women make the man wait so she can get back on the pill?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article, and it got me thinking ...

www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/...est_for_women_who_don_t_have_lots_of_sex.html

The pill is more suitable for long-term relationships where sex is a frequent occurrence, which is why a lot of women go on and off of the pill depending on their relationship status.
So basically, if a woman is not "on the pill", and meets a worthy man and then determines that she wants to have sex with him, she will get back on the pill, which of course takes a few weeks or so to be effective (I'm speculating here that there is such a waiting time.) So even if she determines she wants to have sex (or at least think she might), she needs to wait a little while.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct

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I think the article makes sense. Single people, including women, can have very irregular sex lives. So she might go off of the pill for a while during a dry spell.

It doesn't necessarily mean that she has to make a new relationship partner wait until the pill is effective. Just use condoms for a while first.
 

Zarky

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Not a legit excuse. The chick can start up the pill and you two can use condoms for the required waiting period.
 

Desdinova

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I've had women lie to me about their birth control quite a few times, trying to get pregnant. Unless you watch her eat that pill every single day, you cannot be 100% sure she's on it. NEVER leave birth control solely in the hands of a woman. If they "feel" the desire to have a baby for a couple of days, they'll skip a couple of pills hoping for a miracle.

If you're not fixed or wearing a condom, you shouldn't risk fvcking her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Big Nuts

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She may be waiting for an STD to "clear up".
 
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