"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do some women make the man wait so she can get back on the pill?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article, and it got me thinking ...

www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/...est_for_women_who_don_t_have_lots_of_sex.html

The pill is more suitable for long-term relationships where sex is a frequent occurrence, which is why a lot of women go on and off of the pill depending on their relationship status.
So basically, if a woman is not "on the pill", and meets a worthy man and then determines that she wants to have sex with him, she will get back on the pill, which of course takes a few weeks or so to be effective (I'm speculating here that there is such a waiting time.) So even if she determines she wants to have sex (or at least think she might), she needs to wait a little while.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mike32ct

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I think the article makes sense. Single people, including women, can have very irregular sex lives. So she might go off of the pill for a while during a dry spell.

It doesn't necessarily mean that she has to make a new relationship partner wait until the pill is effective. Just use condoms for a while first.
 

Zarky

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Not a legit excuse. The chick can start up the pill and you two can use condoms for the required waiting period.
 

Desdinova

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I've had women lie to me about their birth control quite a few times, trying to get pregnant. Unless you watch her eat that pill every single day, you cannot be 100% sure she's on it. NEVER leave birth control solely in the hands of a woman. If they "feel" the desire to have a baby for a couple of days, they'll skip a couple of pills hoping for a miracle.

If you're not fixed or wearing a condom, you shouldn't risk fvcking her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Big Nuts

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She may be waiting for an STD to "clear up".
 
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