"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do some women make the man wait so she can get back on the pill?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article, and it got me thinking ...

www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/...est_for_women_who_don_t_have_lots_of_sex.html

The pill is more suitable for long-term relationships where sex is a frequent occurrence, which is why a lot of women go on and off of the pill depending on their relationship status.
So basically, if a woman is not "on the pill", and meets a worthy man and then determines that she wants to have sex with him, she will get back on the pill, which of course takes a few weeks or so to be effective (I'm speculating here that there is such a waiting time.) So even if she determines she wants to have sex (or at least think she might), she needs to wait a little while.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mike32ct

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I think the article makes sense. Single people, including women, can have very irregular sex lives. So she might go off of the pill for a while during a dry spell.

It doesn't necessarily mean that she has to make a new relationship partner wait until the pill is effective. Just use condoms for a while first.
 

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Not a legit excuse. The chick can start up the pill and you two can use condoms for the required waiting period.
 

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I've had women lie to me about their birth control quite a few times, trying to get pregnant. Unless you watch her eat that pill every single day, you cannot be 100% sure she's on it. NEVER leave birth control solely in the hands of a woman. If they "feel" the desire to have a baby for a couple of days, they'll skip a couple of pills hoping for a miracle.

If you're not fixed or wearing a condom, you shouldn't risk fvcking her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She may be waiting for an STD to "clear up".
 
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