SirFratserlot
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Some guy mentioned it in some other topic and this happens to me as well. I thought they were all just fake gestures that make the dysfunctions of American culture.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do smiles from random girls mean anything
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Go Introduce yourself, try for a makeout and a number close.
YOU WILL NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU ACT UPON IT.
Personally -I find Its normally a RESPONSE to a smile I have offered first (since we already know the woman respond to men - and rarely try to LEAD or START an interaction). I take it as an INVITATION TO APPROACH .
So. the next smile you get - go ACT upon it and Find out for yourself WHAT IT MEANS.
(I see why PHM does the bolds and reds - Its so much fun!! )
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Just make a goddamn move and you'll see what it's really about!
Case closed. Call the next case.
Case closed. Call the next case.
A smile from a woman is not just a good sign, it's the #1 indication of interest, especially if you are seeing someone for the first time. It's called a buying sign. If she holds eye contact and smiles you need to get over there. It won't matter what you say. She already likes you by that point and body language is 75% of communication.
However sometimes it might just be a "I think you're cute" smile but they aren't available. In that case just let it brighten your day, and know that other women of that caliber will think the exact same things about you that she did, especially at that moment.
When a person likes what they see their pupils will get bigger so they can see more of it (they :gives you the eye"). They almost always smile in that case. If a person doesn't like you their her pupils get smaller to block you out (they "give you a dirty look"). They hardly ever smile in that case. Subconsciously, we are trained to perceive the difference.
For example, last week I was walking through a crowded outdoor concert and it was mostly old people but suddenly I turned to my left and saw a real beauty, only a foot away. She looked deep in my eyes and then I got a big smile, but it was just as my momentum carried me past her. I didn't process it until I was a few steps past and it would have been too weird to stop and go back (though if you are brave enough, do it).
I stopped for a drink nearby to give the situation a chance to develop. She glanced my way but she didn't send any more overtures. It was a dance which personally I can't stand because you can't hear and you feel obligated to ask them to dance (or they fear you will). But she was one of the prettiest girls I had seen in a long time, so I knew I was having a good night. So I went to another bar and got the phone numbers (and dates from) 2 other hot girls almost immediately. But God I wish I talked to that other girl.
A man's character is judged by the decisions he makes in a split second. Remember: sometimes you'll spend years thinking of missed opportunities, but you'll never regret having been shot down.
However sometimes it might just be a "I think you're cute" smile but they aren't available. In that case just let it brighten your day, and know that other women of that caliber will think the exact same things about you that she did, especially at that moment.
When a person likes what they see their pupils will get bigger so they can see more of it (they :gives you the eye"). They almost always smile in that case. If a person doesn't like you their her pupils get smaller to block you out (they "give you a dirty look"). They hardly ever smile in that case. Subconsciously, we are trained to perceive the difference.
For example, last week I was walking through a crowded outdoor concert and it was mostly old people but suddenly I turned to my left and saw a real beauty, only a foot away. She looked deep in my eyes and then I got a big smile, but it was just as my momentum carried me past her. I didn't process it until I was a few steps past and it would have been too weird to stop and go back (though if you are brave enough, do it).
I stopped for a drink nearby to give the situation a chance to develop. She glanced my way but she didn't send any more overtures. It was a dance which personally I can't stand because you can't hear and you feel obligated to ask them to dance (or they fear you will). But she was one of the prettiest girls I had seen in a long time, so I knew I was having a good night. So I went to another bar and got the phone numbers (and dates from) 2 other hot girls almost immediately. But God I wish I talked to that other girl.
A man's character is judged by the decisions he makes in a split second. Remember: sometimes you'll spend years thinking of missed opportunities, but you'll never regret having been shot down.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
5string
Master Don Juan
Danger smiles at me all the time but I never read anything into it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Means very little. I would say negligible. I acted many times on a smile and strong eye contact and it got my no a no date. The only thing it is is a small indicator that you "may" approach her to talk or get her number or more. Of all these IOI's, I'm beginning to think body language is the worse to go on. That's just my opinion based on what happened to me. It's a weird science at best.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
To me, it means she would not mind if you approached her or said "Hi". No guarantee of anything else. Worth a shot though.
Vice
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*sigh*SirFratserlot said:
If she smiles with her eyes, it's a genuine smile. If her eyes to not smile, it's contrived and you should ignore it.
As far as "dysfunctions of American culture" goes, you're going to have to find a way to exploit it because it's not going to change. It's only going to get worse.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Why that two-timing son of a .......!5string said: