SirFratserlot
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Some guy mentioned it in some other topic and this happens to me as well. I thought they were all just fake gestures that make the dysfunctions of American culture.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do smiles from random girls mean anything
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Purefilth
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Go Introduce yourself, try for a makeout and a number close.
YOU WILL NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU ACT UPON IT.
Personally -I find Its normally a RESPONSE to a smile I have offered first (since we already know the woman respond to men - and rarely try to LEAD or START an interaction). I take it as an INVITATION TO APPROACH .
So. the next smile you get - go ACT upon it and Find out for yourself WHAT IT MEANS.
(I see why PHM does the bolds and reds - Its so much fun!! )
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Just make a goddamn move and you'll see what it's really about!
Case closed. Call the next case.
Case closed. Call the next case.
A smile from a woman is not just a good sign, it's the #1 indication of interest, especially if you are seeing someone for the first time. It's called a buying sign. If she holds eye contact and smiles you need to get over there. It won't matter what you say. She already likes you by that point and body language is 75% of communication.
However sometimes it might just be a "I think you're cute" smile but they aren't available. In that case just let it brighten your day, and know that other women of that caliber will think the exact same things about you that she did, especially at that moment.
When a person likes what they see their pupils will get bigger so they can see more of it (they :gives you the eye"). They almost always smile in that case. If a person doesn't like you their her pupils get smaller to block you out (they "give you a dirty look"). They hardly ever smile in that case. Subconsciously, we are trained to perceive the difference.
For example, last week I was walking through a crowded outdoor concert and it was mostly old people but suddenly I turned to my left and saw a real beauty, only a foot away. She looked deep in my eyes and then I got a big smile, but it was just as my momentum carried me past her. I didn't process it until I was a few steps past and it would have been too weird to stop and go back (though if you are brave enough, do it).
I stopped for a drink nearby to give the situation a chance to develop. She glanced my way but she didn't send any more overtures. It was a dance which personally I can't stand because you can't hear and you feel obligated to ask them to dance (or they fear you will). But she was one of the prettiest girls I had seen in a long time, so I knew I was having a good night. So I went to another bar and got the phone numbers (and dates from) 2 other hot girls almost immediately. But God I wish I talked to that other girl.
A man's character is judged by the decisions he makes in a split second. Remember: sometimes you'll spend years thinking of missed opportunities, but you'll never regret having been shot down.
However sometimes it might just be a "I think you're cute" smile but they aren't available. In that case just let it brighten your day, and know that other women of that caliber will think the exact same things about you that she did, especially at that moment.
When a person likes what they see their pupils will get bigger so they can see more of it (they :gives you the eye"). They almost always smile in that case. If a person doesn't like you their her pupils get smaller to block you out (they "give you a dirty look"). They hardly ever smile in that case. Subconsciously, we are trained to perceive the difference.
For example, last week I was walking through a crowded outdoor concert and it was mostly old people but suddenly I turned to my left and saw a real beauty, only a foot away. She looked deep in my eyes and then I got a big smile, but it was just as my momentum carried me past her. I didn't process it until I was a few steps past and it would have been too weird to stop and go back (though if you are brave enough, do it).
I stopped for a drink nearby to give the situation a chance to develop. She glanced my way but she didn't send any more overtures. It was a dance which personally I can't stand because you can't hear and you feel obligated to ask them to dance (or they fear you will). But she was one of the prettiest girls I had seen in a long time, so I knew I was having a good night. So I went to another bar and got the phone numbers (and dates from) 2 other hot girls almost immediately. But God I wish I talked to that other girl.
A man's character is judged by the decisions he makes in a split second. Remember: sometimes you'll spend years thinking of missed opportunities, but you'll never regret having been shot down.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
5string
Master Don Juan
Danger smiles at me all the time but I never read anything into it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Means very little. I would say negligible. I acted many times on a smile and strong eye contact and it got my no a no date. The only thing it is is a small indicator that you "may" approach her to talk or get her number or more. Of all these IOI's, I'm beginning to think body language is the worse to go on. That's just my opinion based on what happened to me. It's a weird science at best.
Uncharted
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To me, it means she would not mind if you approached her or said "Hi". No guarantee of anything else. Worth a shot though.
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*sigh*SirFratserlot said:
If she smiles with her eyes, it's a genuine smile. If her eyes to not smile, it's contrived and you should ignore it.
As far as "dysfunctions of American culture" goes, you're going to have to find a way to exploit it because it's not going to change. It's only going to get worse.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Atom Smasher
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Why that two-timing son of a .......!5string said: