SirFratserlot
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Some guy mentioned it in some other topic and this happens to me as well. I thought they were all just fake gestures that make the dysfunctions of American culture.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Do smiles from random girls mean anything
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Go Introduce yourself, try for a makeout and a number close.
YOU WILL NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU ACT UPON IT.
Personally -I find Its normally a RESPONSE to a smile I have offered first (since we already know the woman respond to men - and rarely try to LEAD or START an interaction). I take it as an INVITATION TO APPROACH .
So. the next smile you get - go ACT upon it and Find out for yourself WHAT IT MEANS.
(I see why PHM does the bolds and reds - Its so much fun!! )
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Just make a goddamn move and you'll see what it's really about!
Case closed. Call the next case.
Case closed. Call the next case.
A smile from a woman is not just a good sign, it's the #1 indication of interest, especially if you are seeing someone for the first time. It's called a buying sign. If she holds eye contact and smiles you need to get over there. It won't matter what you say. She already likes you by that point and body language is 75% of communication.
However sometimes it might just be a "I think you're cute" smile but they aren't available. In that case just let it brighten your day, and know that other women of that caliber will think the exact same things about you that she did, especially at that moment.
When a person likes what they see their pupils will get bigger so they can see more of it (they :gives you the eye"). They almost always smile in that case. If a person doesn't like you their her pupils get smaller to block you out (they "give you a dirty look"). They hardly ever smile in that case. Subconsciously, we are trained to perceive the difference.
For example, last week I was walking through a crowded outdoor concert and it was mostly old people but suddenly I turned to my left and saw a real beauty, only a foot away. She looked deep in my eyes and then I got a big smile, but it was just as my momentum carried me past her. I didn't process it until I was a few steps past and it would have been too weird to stop and go back (though if you are brave enough, do it).
I stopped for a drink nearby to give the situation a chance to develop. She glanced my way but she didn't send any more overtures. It was a dance which personally I can't stand because you can't hear and you feel obligated to ask them to dance (or they fear you will). But she was one of the prettiest girls I had seen in a long time, so I knew I was having a good night. So I went to another bar and got the phone numbers (and dates from) 2 other hot girls almost immediately. But God I wish I talked to that other girl.
A man's character is judged by the decisions he makes in a split second. Remember: sometimes you'll spend years thinking of missed opportunities, but you'll never regret having been shot down.
However sometimes it might just be a "I think you're cute" smile but they aren't available. In that case just let it brighten your day, and know that other women of that caliber will think the exact same things about you that she did, especially at that moment.
When a person likes what they see their pupils will get bigger so they can see more of it (they :gives you the eye"). They almost always smile in that case. If a person doesn't like you their her pupils get smaller to block you out (they "give you a dirty look"). They hardly ever smile in that case. Subconsciously, we are trained to perceive the difference.
For example, last week I was walking through a crowded outdoor concert and it was mostly old people but suddenly I turned to my left and saw a real beauty, only a foot away. She looked deep in my eyes and then I got a big smile, but it was just as my momentum carried me past her. I didn't process it until I was a few steps past and it would have been too weird to stop and go back (though if you are brave enough, do it).
I stopped for a drink nearby to give the situation a chance to develop. She glanced my way but she didn't send any more overtures. It was a dance which personally I can't stand because you can't hear and you feel obligated to ask them to dance (or they fear you will). But she was one of the prettiest girls I had seen in a long time, so I knew I was having a good night. So I went to another bar and got the phone numbers (and dates from) 2 other hot girls almost immediately. But God I wish I talked to that other girl.
A man's character is judged by the decisions he makes in a split second. Remember: sometimes you'll spend years thinking of missed opportunities, but you'll never regret having been shot down.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
5string
Master Don Juan
Danger smiles at me all the time but I never read anything into it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Means very little. I would say negligible. I acted many times on a smile and strong eye contact and it got my no a no date. The only thing it is is a small indicator that you "may" approach her to talk or get her number or more. Of all these IOI's, I'm beginning to think body language is the worse to go on. That's just my opinion based on what happened to me. It's a weird science at best.
Uncharted
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To me, it means she would not mind if you approached her or said "Hi". No guarantee of anything else. Worth a shot though.
Vice
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*sigh*SirFratserlot said:
If she smiles with her eyes, it's a genuine smile. If her eyes to not smile, it's contrived and you should ignore it.
As far as "dysfunctions of American culture" goes, you're going to have to find a way to exploit it because it's not going to change. It's only going to get worse.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Why that two-timing son of a .......!5string said: