"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do Personal Trainers Get To Bang Hot Chicks?

soulforge

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So we have done the bouncer thread aleady, time to get your opinion on the Personal Trainer.

From personal experience, the gym I attend is packed with HOT chicks..

We have around 8 personal trainers, a few of them look in good shape, however the rest look like they never lifted a weight in there entire life.

What I did notice is, these dudes are always chatting to the hot chicks.. Not sure if they are getting laid, but my guess is, the option is probably there.

Is there a rule set by gyms, where a trainer cannot FUK the trainee?

Also do Personal Trainers get to smash lots of Chicks?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They probably do better than the average Joe working at an office making the same salary.

But probably not as well as the rich guy who has at least any semblance of game. As long as the rich guy isn't hideously ugly.
 

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I became good friends with a trainer at my gym a few years ago...all i can say is his girlfriend was smoking hot and after they broke up his sisters friend who was even hotter basically told his sister she wanted to bang him, so he invited her over for dinner one night and railed her all night long...no date, didn't pay a dime out of his pocket...

He wasn't anything special nor was he even that built...super cool guy tho...i was bigger than him by quite a bit...but i think there is something about being a trainer chicks like...I used to get asked if I was a trainer all the time when I went out...I always told them no but now I really wish I would have told them yes, hahaha
 

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I became good friends with a trainer at my gym a few years ago...all i can say is his girlfriend was smoking hot and after they broke up his sisters friend who was even hotter basically told his sister she wanted to bang him, so he invited her over for dinner one night and railed her all night long...no date, didn't pay a dime out of his pocket...

He wasn't anything special nor was he even that built...super cool guy tho...i was bigger than him by quite a bit...but i think there is something about being a trainer chicks like...I used to get asked if I was a trainer all the time when I went out...I always told them no but now I really wish I would have told them yes, hahaha

Yeh I notice this too, chicks have this thing about personal trainers..

I don't know how some of these PTs manage to stay so composed..

Last week, there was a SMOKING HOT chick ay the gym, the Personal Trainer was teaching her how to squat.. Damn that girl had a Crazzzy hot ass on her!

I would end up with a boner if I was teaching her squats.

So is there any rules in the gym, about personal trainers getting sexualy involved with female trainees?

Seems like to me becoming a PT is the ultimate way of getting hot chicks!
 

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Yeh I notice this too, chicks have this thing about personal trainers..

I don't know how some of these PTs manage to stay so composed..

Last week, there was SMOKING HOT chick ay the gym, the Personal Trainer was teaching her how to squat.. Damn that girl had a Crazzzy hot ass on her!

I would end up with a boner if I was teaching her squats.

So is there any rules in the gym, about personal trainers getting sexualy involved with female trainees?

Seems like to me becoming a PT is the ultimate way of getting hot chicks!
Women look up to leadership positions. So as the trainer you are elevated over guys more built and much finer.

I don't agree how they do it, but this is how they do it. Men don't do this bull****. We would just a woman by herself and her actions and not give so much levity to her "position".
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is there a rule set by gyms, where a trainer cannot FUK the trainee?

Also do Personal Trainers get to smash lots of Chicks?
Its called regulars. They're talking to hot women ie blowing up their ego. Are they pulling and having them digest their proteins? I bet no.

Some. Maybe. Most likely not. Female hypergamy doesn't get moist for a broke ass busta.
 

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Is there a rule set by gyms, where a trainer cannot FUK the trainee??
There probably is a rule. Doesn't mean that it doesn't happen though.
 

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Yeh I notice this too, chicks have this thing about personal trainers..

I don't know how some of these PTs manage to stay so composed..

Last week, there was a SMOKING HOT chick ay the gym, the Personal Trainer was teaching her how to squat.. Damn that girl had a Crazzzy hot ass on her!

I would end up with a boner if I was teaching her squats.

So is there any rules in the gym, about personal trainers getting sexualy involved with female trainees?

Seems like to me becoming a PT is the ultimate way of getting hot chicks!
Any semi cute girl that isn't fut wearing slut pants with camel toe looks hot. Super young and dumb may fall for attractive trainer but same would following if he work in McDonald's or better yet biz.

Guys pull everywhere. Location is irrelevant. You're seeking cheat codes.
 

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Any of these women that have to exercise and train hard have body image issues they are usually fvcked up some how, have a real sense of entitlement. A woman in my neighbourhood is an exercise nut you know damn well she's got issues, she's got quite a bit of attitude, its all to most likely cover up some deep underlying insecurities she has.
 

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Any semi cute girl that isn't fut wearing slut pants with camel toe looks hot. Super young and dumb may fall for attractive trainer but same would following if he work in McDonald's or better yet biz.

Guys pull everywhere. Location is irrelevant. You're seeking cheat codes.
Bartender lol. If there are "cheat codes", which is the best?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I became good friends with a trainer at my gym a few years ago...all i can say is his girlfriend was smoking hot and after they broke up his sisters friend who was even hotter basically told his sister she wanted to bang him, so he invited her over for dinner one night and railed her all night long...no date, didn't pay a dime out of his pocket...

He wasn't anything special nor was he even that built...super cool guy tho...i was bigger than him by quite a bit...but i think there is something about being a trainer chicks like...I used to get asked if I was a trainer all the time when I went out...I always told them no but now I really wish I would have told them yes, hahaha
There's truth to this. I workout consistently and girls ask me either if I'm a trainer or if I would train them. Too bad so far it's been nothing but 5s and below.
 

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Any of these women that have to exercise and train hard have body image issues they are usually fvcked up some how, have a real sense of entitlement. A woman in my neighbourhood is an exercise nut you know damn well she's got issues, she's got quite a bit of attitude, its all to most likely cover up some deep underlying insecurities she has.
You ever play GTA 5? There's literally a nutty fitness ***** on there. It's spot on to what you're saying.
 
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