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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Do negs work on HBs who take themselves too seriously?

pete101

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Some hot girls take themselves so seriously that if you neg them they get offended and started defending themselves. I think this is counterproductive to you trying to open her up, are you suppose to avoid these girls completely even if they're hot and you want to fvck them?

It's all well and good saying to next her but soooo many hot girls are like this, will negs still work?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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She doesn't realize that by defending herself against you, she's actually qualifying herself TO you.

But don't go overboard with the negs, or eventually her rational mind WILL take over, and your name is Mudd.
 

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Negs arent some kind of blue-print. theres no magic bullet where some kind of routine works every time. That being said, every girl is different, you can't generalize and say some routine only works on hot girls, average girls, rich girls, etc. every girl is different and its entirely up to you to read her and find out what kind of girl she is. Is she funny and laid back? Or Does she lack a sense of humor and always serious? A true DJ can read a girl instantly and knows exactly what kind of girl he's dealing with.

If she is one of those stuck biatches, i personally wouldnt even bother. i cant stand girls like that. but if you must, then yea only a few negs work, like only 1 or 2. negs are ok, they can be funny at times, but if you over do it then you just look like a weirdo. what matters more is your frame of mind and your demeanor.
 

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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
She doesn't realize that by defending herself against you, she's actually qualifying herself TO you.

But don't go overboard with the negs, or eventually her rational mind WILL take over, and your name is Mudd.
So she's qualifying herself.

But when she's doing this, how do you respond successfully?

"Don't worry your good enough for me"?

"Your lucky enough to be hanging with me so your all set"?
 

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You should read the DJ bible, or try as hard as you can to get out of this mindset and into a more enjoyable one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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