"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do negs work on HBs who take themselves too seriously?

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pete101

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Some hot girls take themselves so seriously that if you neg them they get offended and started defending themselves. I think this is counterproductive to you trying to open her up, are you suppose to avoid these girls completely even if they're hot and you want to fvck them?

It's all well and good saying to next her but soooo many hot girls are like this, will negs still work?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She doesn't realize that by defending herself against you, she's actually qualifying herself TO you.

But don't go overboard with the negs, or eventually her rational mind WILL take over, and your name is Mudd.
 
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Negs arent some kind of blue-print. theres no magic bullet where some kind of routine works every time. That being said, every girl is different, you can't generalize and say some routine only works on hot girls, average girls, rich girls, etc. every girl is different and its entirely up to you to read her and find out what kind of girl she is. Is she funny and laid back? Or Does she lack a sense of humor and always serious? A true DJ can read a girl instantly and knows exactly what kind of girl he's dealing with.

If she is one of those stuck biatches, i personally wouldnt even bother. i cant stand girls like that. but if you must, then yea only a few negs work, like only 1 or 2. negs are ok, they can be funny at times, but if you over do it then you just look like a weirdo. what matters more is your frame of mind and your demeanor.
 
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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
She doesn't realize that by defending herself against you, she's actually qualifying herself TO you.

But don't go overboard with the negs, or eventually her rational mind WILL take over, and your name is Mudd.
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So she's qualifying herself.

But when she's doing this, how do you respond successfully?

"Don't worry your good enough for me"?

"Your lucky enough to be hanging with me so your all set"?
 
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You should read the DJ bible, or try as hard as you can to get out of this mindset and into a more enjoyable one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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