"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do most 9's and tens suck in bed???

flippinfreak

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The more you speak in a sexual manner, the higher the sexual tension, and the more she will react. Get her to say the words you want her to "Oh yeah, I love your ass, I love it, what do I love? Huh? huh? *smack* I love your what?"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speedo_meme

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Be gone, troll.

The rest of you do yourself a favor and do not respond to flippinfreak (ethnosomethingologist), the biggest homer baffoon sosuave has ever seen.
 

coolguy676767

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Dancing and grinding = quality of sex

Think about it, if they can dance good, then they must have control over their body, and they have rythem and flow. If a girl can dance and move her hips to a rythem and in varying directions and intensity levels to music, then 9 times out of 10 she is going to be good in bed. The only exceptions are if she is very unexperienced or she is really nervous.
 

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Women want to treated like cheap *****s, ESPECIALLY the 9s and 10s.

If you don't direct the frame (dirty threats, total control, hair-pulling, wrist-holding, etc) she will not reciprocate by acting her part as the porn actress to your porn star.

Thpugh I have heard that the fuglier women try harder, I've not had first hand knowledge.

I also wonder if because hot women get access to more alphas and have better sex they generally become better in bed than ms average who gets boinked by mr average once a week if shes unlucky.
 

Boschy

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Have you tried talking to this girl to see why she about as exciting as a dead roo in bed? Explain the way you are feeling, ask her if she is like that all the time. Perhaps she has an unusual fetish? There are lots of different sexualities and fetishes out there. For instance, the necrobabe thing, where a person gets aroused by pretending to be a corpse (if you don't believe me, Google it). There could be any number of reasons why she is like that. She could be submissive. But....just talk to her! Sounds like she enjoyed herself. Is she petending/faking it just be with you? Lots of possible scenarios.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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