"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do Men Still Pay For Dates

2Rocky

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It's honestly amazing that we have guys who genuinely believe a man should pay because he asked her out. You both are going on the date, so you both pay.
Don't write checks with your mouth your ass can't cash....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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I pay the first drink, if I dont get strong signs of interest from her I cut the losses...if she pays the second round I pay the third and the following ones.

Whoever wines&dines girls nowadays spening upfront with no certainity is a professional moron to me.
 

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technically doesn't count as a "first date" cuz cold approach, but the girl i banged this past saturday, i paid for 2 shots to get her loose ;) she returned the favor by paying the railroad fare for me to her place :)
 
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