2Rocky
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Don't write checks with your mouth your ass can't cash....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do Men Still Pay For Dates
- Thread starter Georgepithyou
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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I pay the first drink, if I dont get strong signs of interest from her I cut the losses...if she pays the second round I pay the third and the following ones.
Whoever wines&dines girls nowadays spening upfront with no certainity is a professional moron to me.
Whoever wines&dines girls nowadays spening upfront with no certainity is a professional moron to me.
Velasco
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technically doesn't count as a "first date" cuz cold approach, but the girl i banged this past saturday, i paid for 2 shots to get her loose 
she returned the favor by paying the railroad fare for me to her place
she returned the favor by paying the railroad fare for me to her place