"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do looks mean everything? :(

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Blistex said:
lol. You must be very mature. With that in mind, I cannot be bothered to debate someone ignorant. Not worth my time.
Mate you were being damn condescending, I noticed that and pointed it out. Quit being such a fvcking smartass, you don't know everything. Get over yourself
 

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Looks always mean a lot, but in high school, looks pretty much mean everything.

The hot girls in high school such as the cheerleaders, whatever, are all sluts. Who do they want to date? The good looking jocks, who most of the time are ****s. High school is about status and the good looking kids usually are the popular ones, as well as the rich kids.

To the OP, maybe the girls were thinking that since there were 2 of them, and 2 of you, why should both of them talk to you? You're not going to get with both of them, so one of them probably wants to talk to your friend, and the other to you. If they stop talking to you, move on. Your high school game won't mean nearly as much in college.

I was a nerd in high school and my body was still changing so I looked awkward, but I have had zero problems getting numbers and chicks after me in college. Sure, there's still *******s who get women in college, but that's life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
Looks always mean a lot, but in high school, looks pretty much mean everything.

The hot girls in high school such as the cheerleaders, whatever, are all sluts. Who do they want to date? The good looking jocks, who most of the time are ****s. High school is about status and the good looking kids usually are the popular ones, as well as the rich kids.

To the OP, maybe the girls were thinking that since there were 2 of them, and 2 of you, why should both of them talk to you? You're not going to get with both of them, so one of them probably wants to talk to your friend, and the other to you. If they stop talking to you, move on. Your high school game won't mean nearly as much in college.

I was a nerd in high school and my body was still changing so I looked awkward, but I have had zero problems getting numbers and chicks after me in college. Sure, there's still *******s who get women in college, but that's life.
Some of these girls in this age bracket I get the feeling were never taught respect and manners for real human beings in help, who, to their shock, aren't like the TV pretty boys. At 18-early 20s, I had experience of this- this whole thing that they think what makes a real person, male or female, is their looks alone.
 

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sambwoy said:
Some of these girls in this age bracket I get the feeling were never taught respect and manners for real human beings in help, who, to their shock, aren't like the TV pretty boys. At 18-early 20s, I had experience of this- this whole thing that they think what makes a real person, male or female, is their looks alone.
It's how TV shows and movies always portray high school students. The jocks are always attractive, muscular dudes, and they get with the hot, sexy cheerleaders. They always seem to ignore that the cheerleaders often have no brains or that the jocks are just a bunch of tools.

In my high school, the football team was undefeated (10-0) in my sophomore year, but every other they only won 2-3 games, yet the football players were still adored by women even though they were actually pretty crappy. I had teachers, coaches, and random people ask me why I never played for the school after they saw me throw a few times; I didn't and don't associate with that crowd.

Years later, the cheerleaders didn't go to college or went to community college, and the most of the jocks failed out of community college.

They get theirs in the end, and you get yours.
 
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