DanZy
Master Don Juan
Double post
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mate you were being damn condescending, I noticed that and pointed it out. Quit being such a fvcking smartass, you don't know everything. Get over yourselfBlistex said:lol. You must be very mature. With that in mind, I cannot be bothered to debate someone ignorant. Not worth my time.
Agreed and the answer is so simpleBPH said:This question has been asked so many times...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Some of these girls in this age bracket I get the feeling were never taught respect and manners for real human beings in help, who, to their shock, aren't like the TV pretty boys. At 18-early 20s, I had experience of this- this whole thing that they think what makes a real person, male or female, is their looks alone.MrNiceGuy23 said:Looks always mean a lot, but in high school, looks pretty much mean everything.
The hot girls in high school such as the cheerleaders, whatever, are all sluts. Who do they want to date? The good looking jocks, who most of the time are ****s. High school is about status and the good looking kids usually are the popular ones, as well as the rich kids.
To the OP, maybe the girls were thinking that since there were 2 of them, and 2 of you, why should both of them talk to you? You're not going to get with both of them, so one of them probably wants to talk to your friend, and the other to you. If they stop talking to you, move on. Your high school game won't mean nearly as much in college.
I was a nerd in high school and my body was still changing so I looked awkward, but I have had zero problems getting numbers and chicks after me in college. Sure, there's still *******s who get women in college, but that's life.
It's how TV shows and movies always portray high school students. The jocks are always attractive, muscular dudes, and they get with the hot, sexy cheerleaders. They always seem to ignore that the cheerleaders often have no brains or that the jocks are just a bunch of tools.sambwoy said:Some of these girls in this age bracket I get the feeling were never taught respect and manners for real human beings in help, who, to their shock, aren't like the TV pretty boys. At 18-early 20s, I had experience of this- this whole thing that they think what makes a real person, male or female, is their looks alone.