"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do looks mean everything? :(

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blistex said:
lol. You must be very mature. With that in mind, I cannot be bothered to debate someone ignorant. Not worth my time.
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Mate you were being damn condescending, I noticed that and pointed it out. Quit being such a fvcking smartass, you don't know everything. Get over yourself
 
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Looks always mean a lot, but in high school, looks pretty much mean everything.

The hot girls in high school such as the cheerleaders, whatever, are all sluts. Who do they want to date? The good looking jocks, who most of the time are ****s. High school is about status and the good looking kids usually are the popular ones, as well as the rich kids.

To the OP, maybe the girls were thinking that since there were 2 of them, and 2 of you, why should both of them talk to you? You're not going to get with both of them, so one of them probably wants to talk to your friend, and the other to you. If they stop talking to you, move on. Your high school game won't mean nearly as much in college.

I was a nerd in high school and my body was still changing so I looked awkward, but I have had zero problems getting numbers and chicks after me in college. Sure, there's still *******s who get women in college, but that's life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
Looks always mean a lot, but in high school, looks pretty much mean everything.

The hot girls in high school such as the cheerleaders, whatever, are all sluts. Who do they want to date? The good looking jocks, who most of the time are ****s. High school is about status and the good looking kids usually are the popular ones, as well as the rich kids.

To the OP, maybe the girls were thinking that since there were 2 of them, and 2 of you, why should both of them talk to you? You're not going to get with both of them, so one of them probably wants to talk to your friend, and the other to you. If they stop talking to you, move on. Your high school game won't mean nearly as much in college.

I was a nerd in high school and my body was still changing so I looked awkward, but I have had zero problems getting numbers and chicks after me in college. Sure, there's still *******s who get women in college, but that's life.
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Some of these girls in this age bracket I get the feeling were never taught respect and manners for real human beings in help, who, to their shock, aren't like the TV pretty boys. At 18-early 20s, I had experience of this- this whole thing that they think what makes a real person, male or female, is their looks alone.
 
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Some of these girls in this age bracket I get the feeling were never taught respect and manners for real human beings in help, who, to their shock, aren't like the TV pretty boys. At 18-early 20s, I had experience of this- this whole thing that they think what makes a real person, male or female, is their looks alone.
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It's how TV shows and movies always portray high school students. The jocks are always attractive, muscular dudes, and they get with the hot, sexy cheerleaders. They always seem to ignore that the cheerleaders often have no brains or that the jocks are just a bunch of tools.

In my high school, the football team was undefeated (10-0) in my sophomore year, but every other they only won 2-3 games, yet the football players were still adored by women even though they were actually pretty crappy. I had teachers, coaches, and random people ask me why I never played for the school after they saw me throw a few times; I didn't and don't associate with that crowd.

Years later, the cheerleaders didn't go to college or went to community college, and the most of the jocks failed out of community college.

They get theirs in the end, and you get yours.
 
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