I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
theres certain people about who give me the feel they are trying to become mods.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
people keep complaining about the moderators, currently they get appointed by Allen and it is his choice, and people seem to think the moderators are creating some sort of dictatorship
well how about we get to vote who allen apoints as mod's if it bothers you so much.
well it shouldnt have to yet it seems to be a topic with a lot of contriversy hanging over it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Couldn't agree more. At the end of the day we shouldn't really be complaining, because we shouldn't be here, we should be out there, in the real world, not splitting hairs over who has power on an internet forum.
