You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
theres certain people about who give me the feel they are trying to become mods.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
people keep complaining about the moderators, currently they get appointed by Allen and it is his choice, and people seem to think the moderators are creating some sort of dictatorship
well how about we get to vote who allen apoints as mod's if it bothers you so much.
well it shouldnt have to yet it seems to be a topic with a lot of contriversy hanging over it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Couldn't agree more. At the end of the day we shouldn't really be complaining, because we shouldn't be here, we should be out there, in the real world, not splitting hairs over who has power on an internet forum.
