"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do I still have a chance?

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I am a junior in high school and have never had a relationship with a girl before, no matter how much I have tried. this year though, I became interested in this girl. We only have one class together and I see her in the hallway alot. At first I would smile at her and say hi. She was really receptive and began smiling at me. Before I go any further, I need to mention that I have some friends on the girls basketball team that asked me to go to their games. So I went and it turns out that this girl I was interested in was also on the team. I used this to start up a conversation and gradually I started to get to know her. I thought everything was going fine. She was nice and gave all the signs she was interested in me. However, all of a sudden, the more I talked to her the more distant she acted towards me. I asked her to do something after school twice and both times she said no. The second time she told me to go away and that I was annoying. What the **** happened? When I talked to her friend she said that it seemed like I tried to hard to get her attention. Is there anyway to fix this or should I just forget it?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You can do WAY better than her.
She doesn't fvckin deserve you... forget about her next that b!tch, how dare she call you annoying and refuse your generousness of letting HER hang out with YOU.
Yup she sounds like a complete b!tch, and you shouldn't treat her or any girl that nicely. Don't even think about trying to fix it, cause you can't fix her and she's a complete waste of time.
Trust me man, you'd be so much happier without her. Cause you sure aint happy now.
 

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Short answer: Yeah, drop her like she's hot.

The long answer will be made available upon request.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Maybe, you came on a little strong. Maybe, she smelled fear. Maybe, your body language was wrong. Think back if you did something to blow your chance.

She turned your offer down twice. She ain't that interested in you unfortunitly. If you see her around school. Don't talk to her unless she talks to you first. Move ON!
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Yeah this is a classic case of b!tch, but there usually are certain things that cause it. Look back and try to remember what she might have felt when you did certain things. Doesn't matter how you felt cause you're as good as a hypnotized slave when you've got oneitis.
 
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