"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do I still have a chance?

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I am a junior in high school and have never had a relationship with a girl before, no matter how much I have tried. this year though, I became interested in this girl. We only have one class together and I see her in the hallway alot. At first I would smile at her and say hi. She was really receptive and began smiling at me. Before I go any further, I need to mention that I have some friends on the girls basketball team that asked me to go to their games. So I went and it turns out that this girl I was interested in was also on the team. I used this to start up a conversation and gradually I started to get to know her. I thought everything was going fine. She was nice and gave all the signs she was interested in me. However, all of a sudden, the more I talked to her the more distant she acted towards me. I asked her to do something after school twice and both times she said no. The second time she told me to go away and that I was annoying. What the **** happened? When I talked to her friend she said that it seemed like I tried to hard to get her attention. Is there anyway to fix this or should I just forget it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You can do WAY better than her.
She doesn't fvckin deserve you... forget about her next that b!tch, how dare she call you annoying and refuse your generousness of letting HER hang out with YOU.
Yup she sounds like a complete b!tch, and you shouldn't treat her or any girl that nicely. Don't even think about trying to fix it, cause you can't fix her and she's a complete waste of time.
Trust me man, you'd be so much happier without her. Cause you sure aint happy now.
 

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Short answer: Yeah, drop her like she's hot.

The long answer will be made available upon request.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Maybe, you came on a little strong. Maybe, she smelled fear. Maybe, your body language was wrong. Think back if you did something to blow your chance.

She turned your offer down twice. She ain't that interested in you unfortunitly. If you see her around school. Don't talk to her unless she talks to you first. Move ON!
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Yeah this is a classic case of b!tch, but there usually are certain things that cause it. Look back and try to remember what she might have felt when you did certain things. Doesn't matter how you felt cause you're as good as a hypnotized slave when you've got oneitis.
 
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