"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do i say i LOve you or not

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Sato21m

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Here is the deal i been with my GF for 3 months. She told me "i love you" more than a month ago. She still loves me alot but i could sense that she is scare i havent tell her i love her yet but she is been getting kind of sensitive lately.

She tells me its ok i only want you to say it when ever you feel it, i dont feel it yet, but i know i could get to love her. Anyways would you guys say even thought you dont feel it just to calm her a lil or when ever your ready?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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If you do, say it back... if you don't then i think you need to rethink your relationship. I don't fully understand the whole "I could get to love her" part.

Either you do or you don't.

It's not something you can just decide, It's something you know deep down.
 
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jakeyboy

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I agree with Bad Ass, either you love her or you don't. remember deangelo said "Attraction isn't a choice." you can't CHOOSE to love your girlfriend.

it just happens.

but don't say you love her if you don't wholly mean it - just to calm her down. because even though you might say it verbally, your body language might convey otherwise..
 
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