"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do i say i LOve you or not

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Sato21m

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Here is the deal i been with my GF for 3 months. She told me "i love you" more than a month ago. She still loves me alot but i could sense that she is scare i havent tell her i love her yet but she is been getting kind of sensitive lately.

She tells me its ok i only want you to say it when ever you feel it, i dont feel it yet, but i know i could get to love her. Anyways would you guys say even thought you dont feel it just to calm her a lil or when ever your ready?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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If you do, say it back... if you don't then i think you need to rethink your relationship. I don't fully understand the whole "I could get to love her" part.

Either you do or you don't.

It's not something you can just decide, It's something you know deep down.
 
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jakeyboy

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I agree with Bad Ass, either you love her or you don't. remember deangelo said "Attraction isn't a choice." you can't CHOOSE to love your girlfriend.

it just happens.

but don't say you love her if you don't wholly mean it - just to calm her down. because even though you might say it verbally, your body language might convey otherwise..
 
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