"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do i say i LOve you or not

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Sato21m

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Here is the deal i been with my GF for 3 months. She told me "i love you" more than a month ago. She still loves me alot but i could sense that she is scare i havent tell her i love her yet but she is been getting kind of sensitive lately.

She tells me its ok i only want you to say it when ever you feel it, i dont feel it yet, but i know i could get to love her. Anyways would you guys say even thought you dont feel it just to calm her a lil or when ever your ready?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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If you do, say it back... if you don't then i think you need to rethink your relationship. I don't fully understand the whole "I could get to love her" part.

Either you do or you don't.

It's not something you can just decide, It's something you know deep down.
 
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jakeyboy

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I agree with Bad Ass, either you love her or you don't. remember deangelo said "Attraction isn't a choice." you can't CHOOSE to love your girlfriend.

it just happens.

but don't say you love her if you don't wholly mean it - just to calm her down. because even though you might say it verbally, your body language might convey otherwise..
 
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