"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do I say anything about other girls

jaybeezi

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O.k I am talking to 2 girls right now, I wouldnt have done this before (wouldnt have been able to), but one of them moved so I talked to a different girl then the other moved back, so, would it be wise or not to mention the other girl, kind of like a way to let her know that I am wanted.

I dont mean telling her I am going out with another girl, just that I met a girl at a club and went to a party with her, but am not really sure where we stand, or something to that effect.

thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ToP DoN

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yeah you can just tell her u met her while she was away...as long as u dont tell her u fvkce dher or anything....just to let her know u have other girls in the pipeline...but hinting...not tellin that she may the top one...or not
 

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Mention her in the course of conversation.

"Oh, Jessica, you like Tolstoy too? That's awesome! In fact, Melissa and I were talking about the use of symbolism in..."

Subtle, almost meaningless, yet it'll drive her crazy. I know it does when girls do it to me. :p
 
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Just have an air of confidence about yourself and be uncaring of the outcome with the chick that you are with and she'll know you have other options - be a 'catch' in her eyes and don't worry about dropping names.!
 
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