"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do I say anything about other girls

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O.k I am talking to 2 girls right now, I wouldnt have done this before (wouldnt have been able to), but one of them moved so I talked to a different girl then the other moved back, so, would it be wise or not to mention the other girl, kind of like a way to let her know that I am wanted.

I dont mean telling her I am going out with another girl, just that I met a girl at a club and went to a party with her, but am not really sure where we stand, or something to that effect.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah you can just tell her u met her while she was away...as long as u dont tell her u fvkce dher or anything....just to let her know u have other girls in the pipeline...but hinting...not tellin that she may the top one...or not
 
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Mention her in the course of conversation.

"Oh, Jessica, you like Tolstoy too? That's awesome! In fact, Melissa and I were talking about the use of symbolism in..."

Subtle, almost meaningless, yet it'll drive her crazy. I know it does when girls do it to me. :p
 
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Just have an air of confidence about yourself and be uncaring of the outcome with the chick that you are with and she'll know you have other options - be a 'catch' in her eyes and don't worry about dropping names.!
 
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