Lol don't care what that retard says. You have good looks, but you look a bit bland. Get some accessories to boost up your looks.Lostsoul85 said:Seriously?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol don't care what that retard says. You have good looks, but you look a bit bland. Get some accessories to boost up your looks.Lostsoul85 said:Seriously?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
white guys have and easier time pulling black girls than black men do.. thats sad..lolSirFratserlot said:if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Seriously.Lostsoul85 said:Seriously?
Ronaldo7 said:Not at all. I am very, very overprotective of my identity because of reasons i can't disclose. If you post a picture of yourself, it is up to you to ride along with the consequences that can follow.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Did you get upset over my comments? You are the one that needs to grow up. Why are you whining over MY opinion?SpazzAttackk said:I actually wanna know why this scrub isnt banned yet lol. His insecurities shoot out of my monitor.
No, OP. You dont look like a cancer patient. Dont take anything he says seriously, I mean.. hes obsessed with another male soccer player.
Thats not even beta, thats like some delta **** and kind of homo. Its funny, they say you cant tell how a person is over the internet, but I can put money that this kid is 1. Not old enough to be here and if he is, he needs to grow up and 2. Hes bitter with his life and looks. Def not DJ material, AFCs are better than this dude lol.
Totally, you got me again. Damn.Ronaldo7 said:Did you get upset over my comments? You are the one that needs to grow up. Why are you whining over MY opinion?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.