"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do I pull off the bald look?

Lostsoul85

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I need your honest opinion guys even if it may hurt..I have been losing my hair since I was 21 now I'm 27 so recently I decided to shave my head skin bald.Do you think this bald look works will I creep out women?now I posted this on puahate and a couple of guys rated me as a 3.5 and a 4 because of my feminine eyes and weak jawline.Unfortunatly, this has been my only option because I don't want to take drugs.Do you guys think I have an egghead?
http://s1284.photobucket.com/user/Caliboi85/library/?sort=2&page=1
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's not bad, especially because you have dark skin. Way better than a balding/receding hairline. Try to wear darker clothes, preferably black when you go out
 

Sonny Knight

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hold up !!!they have black people on this site

there goes the neighborhood
 

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You pull off the bald look well. If you're worried about a weak jawline you can always try a few beard styles until you find one that works for your face.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foreverAFC

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time to hit the gym, get that athletic look
 

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Naw man you don't have anything to worry about, looks pretty good imo!
 

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dvjackson said:
You actually look really good, no homo

black guys can usually pull off the shaved head look, be glad you aren't white, it's really iffy for us.

A good beard often complements a shaved head though.
if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sonny Knight

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SirFratserlot said:
if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
what are you trying to say black guy can't pull girls:trouble:
 

SirFratserlot

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Sonny Knight said:
what are you trying to say black guy can't pull girls:trouble:
depends on the location, but white males will always have the upper edge in the dating game
 

Who Dares Win

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Grow some facial hair, that would make a lot of difference and would make any feminine feature unseen.

A goatee would fit great.
 

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You need some work on your 'avatar'.

You look too much like a nice guy. Being a nice guy won't make women bend over for you with open orifices.

Hit the gym, get some bling around you neck/bracelet (women like bling), put some stupid hat on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ronaldo7

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You look like a ghetto girl that hasn't yet figured out that her weave isn't part of her head.
 

Lostsoul85

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Espi said:
Why care what we think?

For every racist knucklehead on this thread that flames you for the color of your skin, there are 100 women out there who may find your dark, bald look attractive. But you know what? It doesn't really matter. You do your own thing and stick to it...if other people don't like it or approve of it...fvuck 'em.

In my opinion, adopting the DJ mindset comes down to embracing how you feel about yourself. "How do I look?" is NOT part of the DJ vocab...especially when that question is posed to other men.
Right but at the same time you don't want to go out looking like a cancer patient or with an alien-looking head which is what I was told on puahate.do you guys see any of this?
 

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Lmao! A cancer patient with an alien-looking head. Ahahahah.
 

Ronaldo7

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Now that you mention it. You do look like a cancer patient. Maybe try finding a girl going through chemo? It'll work out. Not like she can judge you or make fun of you.
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
Now that you mention it. You do look like a cancer patient. Maybe try finding a girl going through chemo? It'll work out. Not like she can judge you or make fun of you.
Seriously?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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