Lol don't care what that retard says. You have good looks, but you look a bit bland. Get some accessories to boost up your looks.Lostsoul85 said:Seriously?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol don't care what that retard says. You have good looks, but you look a bit bland. Get some accessories to boost up your looks.Lostsoul85 said:Seriously?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
white guys have and easier time pulling black girls than black men do.. thats sad..lolSirFratserlot said:if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Seriously.Lostsoul85 said:Seriously?
Ronaldo7 said:Not at all. I am very, very overprotective of my identity because of reasons i can't disclose. If you post a picture of yourself, it is up to you to ride along with the consequences that can follow.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Did you get upset over my comments? You are the one that needs to grow up. Why are you whining over MY opinion?SpazzAttackk said:I actually wanna know why this scrub isnt banned yet lol. His insecurities shoot out of my monitor.
No, OP. You dont look like a cancer patient. Dont take anything he says seriously, I mean.. hes obsessed with another male soccer player.
Thats not even beta, thats like some delta **** and kind of homo. Its funny, they say you cant tell how a person is over the internet, but I can put money that this kid is 1. Not old enough to be here and if he is, he needs to grow up and 2. Hes bitter with his life and looks. Def not DJ material, AFCs are better than this dude lol.
Totally, you got me again. Damn.Ronaldo7 said:Did you get upset over my comments? You are the one that needs to grow up. Why are you whining over MY opinion?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.