"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do I pull off the bald look?

Lostsoul85

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I need your honest opinion guys even if it may hurt..I have been losing my hair since I was 21 now I'm 27 so recently I decided to shave my head skin bald.Do you think this bald look works will I creep out women?now I posted this on puahate and a couple of guys rated me as a 3.5 and a 4 because of my feminine eyes and weak jawline.Unfortunatly, this has been my only option because I don't want to take drugs.Do you guys think I have an egghead?
http://s1284.photobucket.com/user/Caliboi85/library/?sort=2&page=1
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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casaanova

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It's not bad, especially because you have dark skin. Way better than a balding/receding hairline. Try to wear darker clothes, preferably black when you go out
 

Sonny Knight

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hold up !!!they have black people on this site

there goes the neighborhood
 

Zerro

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You pull off the bald look well. If you're worried about a weak jawline you can always try a few beard styles until you find one that works for your face.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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foreverAFC

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time to hit the gym, get that athletic look
 

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Naw man you don't have anything to worry about, looks pretty good imo!
 

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dvjackson said:
You actually look really good, no homo

black guys can usually pull off the shaved head look, be glad you aren't white, it's really iffy for us.

A good beard often complements a shaved head though.
if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sonny Knight

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SirFratserlot said:
if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
what are you trying to say black guy can't pull girls:trouble:
 

SirFratserlot

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Sonny Knight said:
what are you trying to say black guy can't pull girls:trouble:
depends on the location, but white males will always have the upper edge in the dating game
 

Who Dares Win

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Grow some facial hair, that would make a lot of difference and would make any feminine feature unseen.

A goatee would fit great.
 

LMFAO

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You need some work on your 'avatar'.

You look too much like a nice guy. Being a nice guy won't make women bend over for you with open orifices.

Hit the gym, get some bling around you neck/bracelet (women like bling), put some stupid hat on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ronaldo7

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You look like a ghetto girl that hasn't yet figured out that her weave isn't part of her head.
 

Lostsoul85

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Espi said:
Why care what we think?

For every racist knucklehead on this thread that flames you for the color of your skin, there are 100 women out there who may find your dark, bald look attractive. But you know what? It doesn't really matter. You do your own thing and stick to it...if other people don't like it or approve of it...fvuck 'em.

In my opinion, adopting the DJ mindset comes down to embracing how you feel about yourself. "How do I look?" is NOT part of the DJ vocab...especially when that question is posed to other men.
Right but at the same time you don't want to go out looking like a cancer patient or with an alien-looking head which is what I was told on puahate.do you guys see any of this?
 

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Lmao! A cancer patient with an alien-looking head. Ahahahah.
 

Ronaldo7

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Now that you mention it. You do look like a cancer patient. Maybe try finding a girl going through chemo? It'll work out. Not like she can judge you or make fun of you.
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
Now that you mention it. You do look like a cancer patient. Maybe try finding a girl going through chemo? It'll work out. Not like she can judge you or make fun of you.
Seriously?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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