"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do I pull off the bald look?

Lostsoul85

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I need your honest opinion guys even if it may hurt..I have been losing my hair since I was 21 now I'm 27 so recently I decided to shave my head skin bald.Do you think this bald look works will I creep out women?now I posted this on puahate and a couple of guys rated me as a 3.5 and a 4 because of my feminine eyes and weak jawline.Unfortunatly, this has been my only option because I don't want to take drugs.Do you guys think I have an egghead?
http://s1284.photobucket.com/user/Caliboi85/library/?sort=2&page=1
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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casaanova

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It's not bad, especially because you have dark skin. Way better than a balding/receding hairline. Try to wear darker clothes, preferably black when you go out
 

Sonny Knight

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hold up !!!they have black people on this site

there goes the neighborhood
 

Zerro

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You pull off the bald look well. If you're worried about a weak jawline you can always try a few beard styles until you find one that works for your face.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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foreverAFC

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time to hit the gym, get that athletic look
 

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Naw man you don't have anything to worry about, looks pretty good imo!
 

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dvjackson said:
You actually look really good, no homo

black guys can usually pull off the shaved head look, be glad you aren't white, it's really iffy for us.

A good beard often complements a shaved head though.
if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sonny Knight

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SirFratserlot said:
if he was white than he would have an easier time pulling girls
what are you trying to say black guy can't pull girls:trouble:
 

SirFratserlot

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Sonny Knight said:
what are you trying to say black guy can't pull girls:trouble:
depends on the location, but white males will always have the upper edge in the dating game
 

Who Dares Win

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Grow some facial hair, that would make a lot of difference and would make any feminine feature unseen.

A goatee would fit great.
 

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You need some work on your 'avatar'.

You look too much like a nice guy. Being a nice guy won't make women bend over for you with open orifices.

Hit the gym, get some bling around you neck/bracelet (women like bling), put some stupid hat on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ronaldo7

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You look like a ghetto girl that hasn't yet figured out that her weave isn't part of her head.
 

Lostsoul85

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Espi said:
Why care what we think?

For every racist knucklehead on this thread that flames you for the color of your skin, there are 100 women out there who may find your dark, bald look attractive. But you know what? It doesn't really matter. You do your own thing and stick to it...if other people don't like it or approve of it...fvuck 'em.

In my opinion, adopting the DJ mindset comes down to embracing how you feel about yourself. "How do I look?" is NOT part of the DJ vocab...especially when that question is posed to other men.
Right but at the same time you don't want to go out looking like a cancer patient or with an alien-looking head which is what I was told on puahate.do you guys see any of this?
 

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Lmao! A cancer patient with an alien-looking head. Ahahahah.
 

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Now that you mention it. You do look like a cancer patient. Maybe try finding a girl going through chemo? It'll work out. Not like she can judge you or make fun of you.
 

Lostsoul85

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Ronaldo7 said:
Now that you mention it. You do look like a cancer patient. Maybe try finding a girl going through chemo? It'll work out. Not like she can judge you or make fun of you.
Seriously?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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