wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Beards are over.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do i look that old or give old man / old school vibes?
- Thread starter ImprovingJuan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yep... I would shave the beard or grow it out. You have a nice strong jawline... you really don't need a beard. You look your age.. but you are wearing a beard style like a dude in his 20s.
ImprovingJuan
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you guys really think its the beard or is there more to it. if someone has some tips and doesnt want to post here, please pm me.
TheMonkeyKing
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I would agree with the comments about the beard and eyebrows. You shouldn't have any hair beneath the jaw line, so don't even attempt to style it that way. I'd say you look like you're in your mid-thirties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.