wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Beards are over.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Do i look that old or give old man / old school vibes?
- Thread starter ImprovingJuan
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yep... I would shave the beard or grow it out. You have a nice strong jawline... you really don't need a beard. You look your age.. but you are wearing a beard style like a dude in his 20s.
ImprovingJuan
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you guys really think its the beard or is there more to it. if someone has some tips and doesnt want to post here, please pm me.
TheMonkeyKing
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I would agree with the comments about the beard and eyebrows. You shouldn't have any hair beneath the jaw line, so don't even attempt to style it that way. I'd say you look like you're in your mid-thirties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.