wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Beards are over.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Do i look that old or give old man / old school vibes?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yep... I would shave the beard or grow it out. You have a nice strong jawline... you really don't need a beard. You look your age.. but you are wearing a beard style like a dude in his 20s.
ImprovingJuan
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you guys really think its the beard or is there more to it. if someone has some tips and doesnt want to post here, please pm me.
TheMonkeyKing
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I would agree with the comments about the beard and eyebrows. You shouldn't have any hair beneath the jaw line, so don't even attempt to style it that way. I'd say you look like you're in your mid-thirties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.