wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Beards are over.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do i look that old or give old man / old school vibes?
- Thread starter ImprovingJuan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yep... I would shave the beard or grow it out. You have a nice strong jawline... you really don't need a beard. You look your age.. but you are wearing a beard style like a dude in his 20s.
ImprovingJuan
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you guys really think its the beard or is there more to it. if someone has some tips and doesnt want to post here, please pm me.
TheMonkeyKing
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I would agree with the comments about the beard and eyebrows. You shouldn't have any hair beneath the jaw line, so don't even attempt to style it that way. I'd say you look like you're in your mid-thirties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
As far as your appearance goes, think about your physique and the clothes you wear as well. Otherwise it's pretty difficult to go on two close up photos of your face.
That being said, it's not just your appearance that matters. How you carry yourself, how you talk to other people, your general self esteem, where you go to meet people and the types of people you meet all contribute to your success. As has been said, if all you are meeting is gays and grannies, start thinking about where you can go to meet hotties.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.