"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do I have herpes?

melbourne2234

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I had sex with this girl for the first time twice, once on Monday night and the next morning as well. Both times I used protection. However on Tuesday afternoon I started to get rashes with big bumps, sort of like mosquito bites, basically all around my groin. Not on my ****, but on the closest sides of the left and right leg, and up to and around my belly button. I have a few patches going up my chest as well, even a small red patch under my right nipple. Now some of these bumps have turned into little red dots, maybe through me scratching them, that are very itchy.

So in short, do you guys think this is herpes? Or is it just an allergic reaction to something?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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M2k961

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No one on this board is qualified to make that statement. Go check that out at your doctor's. You may or may not have something serious.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Some of the symptoms you describe are similar to herpes. A visit to your local health department or physician will tell you much more than I can though.

But your description is somewhat similar to my herpes. Did you have any other secondary symptoms (similar to a cold or flu) recently?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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melbourne2234

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I went to my doctor today, and it isn't herpes, it's some sort of bacterial infection. I never thought I'd be so happy to have a bacterial infection! It did look quite a bit like herpes. I was quite worried there for awhile.
 

tyciol

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Yeah... why does she have so much bacteria? Did you see an infection on her?
 

diablo

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News flash: Not washing the area that's come into contact with p*ssy juice will cause a rash such as has been described. Always, always, always clean yourself after you have sex!
 

penkitten

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you can catch yeast infections thru sex if the chick has them, you can not see yeast until there is a reaction with your body.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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saki

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fvckin people are disgusting, I cant believe I like to eat pvssy juice
 
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