"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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alright, my first post guys.
how is my situation looking as far as me wanting to date her goes. The girl is about a year older than me and i see her quite regularly but we don't ever really have time for any particularly meaningful convos. and there is not a way i can isolate her to ask her out so should i make the date seem more casual? she seems interested imo but she has stated me as her friend indirectly on occasion, although she seems bent on me not liking her at times. it also seems lately that i must engage her to have a convo where as she'll easily talk with other boys. should i go for it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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get her to give u a ride home. im dating an older chick and like 90% of the times i see her it starts out me asking for a ride, then we swing by her house etc
 
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sry, been gone for a while with the fam. thnx for the replies.
anyway i get back to school and find out she doesnt have her license yet so im outta luck there. Next, small thing is when i saw her in a corridor one day and i complemented her on her outfit and told her should look cute. she says," thank you, ur beautiful as well." then she starts lettin me see some injury on her hand from powderpuff so i felt on her hand for little and then split ways. Was she basically asking me to touch her?
 
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:crackup: yes mate....she wants you to touch her hand. no big deal. chillax and do some reading

The Complete High School Works (see link above) will help alot
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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