"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alright, my first post guys.
how is my situation looking as far as me wanting to date her goes. The girl is about a year older than me and i see her quite regularly but we don't ever really have time for any particularly meaningful convos. and there is not a way i can isolate her to ask her out so should i make the date seem more casual? she seems interested imo but she has stated me as her friend indirectly on occasion, although she seems bent on me not liking her at times. it also seems lately that i must engage her to have a convo where as she'll easily talk with other boys. should i go for it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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get her to give u a ride home. im dating an older chick and like 90% of the times i see her it starts out me asking for a ride, then we swing by her house etc
 
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sry, been gone for a while with the fam. thnx for the replies.
anyway i get back to school and find out she doesnt have her license yet so im outta luck there. Next, small thing is when i saw her in a corridor one day and i complemented her on her outfit and told her should look cute. she says," thank you, ur beautiful as well." then she starts lettin me see some injury on her hand from powderpuff so i felt on her hand for little and then split ways. Was she basically asking me to touch her?
 
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:crackup: yes mate....she wants you to touch her hand. no big deal. chillax and do some reading

The Complete High School Works (see link above) will help alot
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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