"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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do i have a shot

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alright, my first post guys.
how is my situation looking as far as me wanting to date her goes. The girl is about a year older than me and i see her quite regularly but we don't ever really have time for any particularly meaningful convos. and there is not a way i can isolate her to ask her out so should i make the date seem more casual? she seems interested imo but she has stated me as her friend indirectly on occasion, although she seems bent on me not liking her at times. it also seems lately that i must engage her to have a convo where as she'll easily talk with other boys. should i go for it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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get her to give u a ride home. im dating an older chick and like 90% of the times i see her it starts out me asking for a ride, then we swing by her house etc
 
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sry, been gone for a while with the fam. thnx for the replies.
anyway i get back to school and find out she doesnt have her license yet so im outta luck there. Next, small thing is when i saw her in a corridor one day and i complemented her on her outfit and told her should look cute. she says," thank you, ur beautiful as well." then she starts lettin me see some injury on her hand from powderpuff so i felt on her hand for little and then split ways. Was she basically asking me to touch her?
 
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:crackup: yes mate....she wants you to touch her hand. no big deal. chillax and do some reading

The Complete High School Works (see link above) will help alot
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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