"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do I have a Misconception about Night Clubs?????

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I have avoided the night club scene for the most part. I sometimes go out with my boys but usually my friday and saturday nights are spent chillin with friends or working out, and occasionally goin to the clubs.

I guess for some reason I have the idea in my head that I cannot meet quality girls at the clubs. I don't really like goody goody girls but I'm more low key and laid back when it comes to going out. I definitely like party girls for a good time but not for relationships, probably because thats not my scene.

I was just wondering if it is possible to meet quality girls at the club? or are most of the girls at clubs just lookin for a lay?(not a bad thing).. Any feedback is appreciated

In other words, have any of you gotten into LTR's with women you met at clubs/bars? If so were they productive or crappy?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by SurfsupinHawaii
or are most of the girls at clubs just lookin for a lay?(not a bad thing)..
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No. Most girls at the club are looking for attention and ego boosting. there looking to prance around in skimpy clothes while men google over them. Basically, their idea of a good time.

Your game has gotta be tight to pick up women here, but it can be done. I would look at other outlets though
 
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No i know **** loads of girls who go clubbin' twice a week, just to have fun, get drunk, danced etc. These are girls who have BFs or won't sleep with someone on the first day, unless they really like them.
 
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I was just wondering if it is possible to meet quality girls at the club?
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Possible, yes. I've met a few. But as I like to say, anything is possible but is it likely. We all have our different considerations for what constitutes 'quality' girls, so how likely and how often we are to find quality girls in clubs will differ.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by SurfsupinHawaii
I have avoided the night club scene for the most part. I sometimes go out with my boys but usually my friday and saturday nights are spent chillin with friends or working out, and occasionally goin to the clubs.

I guess for some reason I have the idea in my head that I cannot meet quality girls at the clubs. I don't really like goody goody girls but I'm more low key and laid back when it comes to going out. I definitely like party girls for a good time but not for relationships, probably because thats not my scene.

I was just wondering if it is possible to meet quality girls at the club? or are most of the girls at clubs just lookin for a lay?(not a bad thing).. Any feedback is appreciated

In other words, have any of you gotten into LTR's with women you met at clubs/bars? If so were they productive or crappy?
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I've met one or two decent ones there.
 
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