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Do I have a Misconception about Night Clubs?????

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I have avoided the night club scene for the most part. I sometimes go out with my boys but usually my friday and saturday nights are spent chillin with friends or working out, and occasionally goin to the clubs.

I guess for some reason I have the idea in my head that I cannot meet quality girls at the clubs. I don't really like goody goody girls but I'm more low key and laid back when it comes to going out. I definitely like party girls for a good time but not for relationships, probably because thats not my scene.

I was just wondering if it is possible to meet quality girls at the club? or are most of the girls at clubs just lookin for a lay?(not a bad thing).. Any feedback is appreciated

In other words, have any of you gotten into LTR's with women you met at clubs/bars? If so were they productive or crappy?
 

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Originally posted by SurfsupinHawaii
or are most of the girls at clubs just lookin for a lay?(not a bad thing)..
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No. Most girls at the club are looking for attention and ego boosting. there looking to prance around in skimpy clothes while men google over them. Basically, their idea of a good time.

Your game has gotta be tight to pick up women here, but it can be done. I would look at other outlets though
 
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No i know **** loads of girls who go clubbin' twice a week, just to have fun, get drunk, danced etc. These are girls who have BFs or won't sleep with someone on the first day, unless they really like them.
 
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I was just wondering if it is possible to meet quality girls at the club?
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Possible, yes. I've met a few. But as I like to say, anything is possible but is it likely. We all have our different considerations for what constitutes 'quality' girls, so how likely and how often we are to find quality girls in clubs will differ.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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Originally posted by SurfsupinHawaii
I have avoided the night club scene for the most part. I sometimes go out with my boys but usually my friday and saturday nights are spent chillin with friends or working out, and occasionally goin to the clubs.

I guess for some reason I have the idea in my head that I cannot meet quality girls at the clubs. I don't really like goody goody girls but I'm more low key and laid back when it comes to going out. I definitely like party girls for a good time but not for relationships, probably because thats not my scene.

I was just wondering if it is possible to meet quality girls at the club? or are most of the girls at clubs just lookin for a lay?(not a bad thing).. Any feedback is appreciated

In other words, have any of you gotten into LTR's with women you met at clubs/bars? If so were they productive or crappy?
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I've met one or two decent ones there.
 
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