She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Originally posted by PoS
guys, i am being VERY serious. since last year, i have this uncontrollable anger, due to my afc-ness (no gf for two years), now i am at the point that everytime i see any guy with an attractive female, i want to swing my baseball bat and just beat the crap out of him.
damn .. i need to get laid before i hurt someone
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You are over reacting. As long as your anger does not control you and actually causes you to swing a bat at some guys head then you are just frustrated. Maybe you need to channel the anger at yourself and this will motivate you to be the best that you can be and thus be able to pick up women and get laid.Originally posted by PoS
guys, i am being VERY serious. since last year, i have this uncontrollable anger, due to my afc-ness (no gf for two years), now i am at the point that everytime i see any guy with an attractive female, i want to swing my baseball bat and just beat the crap out of him.
damn .. i need to get laid before i hurt someone
Uhh, who cares about the guys in jails? They're fvck ups. That's why they're there. The original poster *isn't* in jail yet. And if he wants to stay out of jail, he should work on self improvement.Originally posted by themanwithnoname
so you're saying you solve your anger problem by going after girls and seeing if you can get their number, tell that to the criminals in jails then.
may the force be with you jedi !Originally posted by PoS
now i am at the point that everytime i see any guy with an attractive female, i want to swing my baseball bat and just beat the crap out of him.
Why would he go to jail for asking a girl for her phone number? Obviously she wanted to give it to him if they hooked up....You're weird dude.Originally posted by themanwithnoname
so you're saying you solve your anger problem by going after girls and seeing if you can get their number, tell that to the criminals in jails then.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.